Here's my story, i'll try to make it short. I'm a girl (23yo) and have a girlfriend, we've been happily in love for 2,5 years already, but there've been lots of pressure from our parents and our friends know nothing about our relationship, cuz people around us just couldn't take it normally. We could live normally only if we moved somewhere. I wanna make it clear that we love each other so much that it hurts, but the thought crosses my mind that maybe I should let her go and have a normal life, it's our first relationship for both of us, and we're both bisexual, so maybe she could find out what it's like to be with a guy and then, if she still wants me, come back to me having experienced love other than mine. I would appreciate your opinions very much, thanx in advance.
2007-03-03 07:14:06 · 9 answers · asked by justsogirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How about you talk about this with her? I mean it's going to effect both of you in different ways...
2007-03-03 07:20:25 · answer #1 · answered by somedaywillcome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not make any choices due to what others may feel you should or should not do or how you should or should not be. It is all fine. You know what maybe you are right and it will not last then why give this beautiful gift up? It is something real and meaningful for you and her. Dont let go of someone cus of fears of them not knowing enough about love or about life. She can learn with you and as you grow she will too. It is alright that she has not had any other experiences maybe she will later, or maybe she wont. there are enough relationships that start out when really young and stay together their entire lives. Just talk to her about how you feel, but first really understand why you feel this way. Is it due to others words or thoughts, your own fears?
Just so you know GOD is only LOVE and no JUDGEMENT EVER. so you have nothing to be forgiven for and you have done nothing wrong or "sinful". That is all a myth. There is no judgement in real pure love only the energy of it. So dont fret over silly people who CHOOSE to live with or in fear of God.
2007-03-03 15:27:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the society puts a huge pressure to everyone. however the society is created by the needs of the many and yet it is not sure how many ppl in the same society would agree with the written and especially the unwritten laws.
life is meant to give you happiness, so do what makes you more happy. you are still very young to press yourself about life decisions. spend your time in happiness with your gf and tell to your environment that you are just friends searching for Mr.right.
watch the d.e.b.s and v for vendeta movies and have a nice time. when you grow up, it is possible that your maternity instinct will change your needs, but until then just enjoy life the way you feel
2007-03-03 15:55:45 · answer #3 · answered by zeke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do what feel right in your heart! Don't let others make the decision for you. Who cares what other people think! I know it's hard i have seen someone of my bisexual and gay friends go thorough the crap because of people like Mikey! People like that need to get a life! Like i said before go with what is inside you. That is the best thing you can do.
2007-03-03 15:28:12 · answer #4 · answered by Andrea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her, don't let her go. Make sure the feelings are mutual, and if they are then you'll just have to battle it out with your families. If you think your truly in love, I say go for it. Don't let anyone stand in the way of what makes you happy.
2007-03-03 15:20:57 · answer #5 · answered by Jaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal to the world and GOD is a man and a woman.......guess what? As long as you keep on sinning against GOD, you will ALWAYS have a problem. Get a man.
2007-03-03 15:18:06 · answer #6 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should do what makes you happy don't mind what narrow minded people say don't ever let anyone convince you to give up on something you want live your own life don't let her go
2007-03-03 15:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do that
you love her ........ that's all that matters
not everybody thinks the same thing about "gay relationships "maybe your parents and your friends will understand that you love each ohter
i think it is normal just stay with her
2007-03-03 15:23:21 · answer #8 · answered by Talis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sh!t you a les!!!!!!
2007-03-03 15:19:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋