how do i tell my boyfriend im too tired for sex?

Question

I go to school during the day, and work after. When I get home the last hting on my ming is sex what to do

Answer 1

Honestly you don't. We can't relate to that. If you can't take care of his needs you need to tell him so and offer to either break up or let him fool around with someone else.

Answer 2

you should say the truth to your bf. in our modern society free time is a precious thing and we spend a lot of effort in necessary things like work etc. however, sex is a real need and helps us relax, especially if done with someone we love. so before discussing anything you should question your priorities and also clarify whether you have another reason to avoid sex with this person. meanwhile dont have sex if you dont want.

Answer 3

"Honey, you know between school, and work, and daily chores - I really get tired and can do with some help. These activities leave me tired for sex and I don't want that. I wish I didnt have to do anything else after school & work."

You know what, I think this may be a cry for help because you want him to help you - sex in itself can be refreshing really.

Answer 4

Just tell him that you are too tired to have sex....sounds easy enough. If he won't accept it then he seems the controlling type and you should dump him.

You shouldn't be having pre-marital sex in the first place.

Answer 5

like this "im too tired for sex". he should understand than, you dont have to make up an excuse just tell him that you arent in the mood and you need your sleep.

Answer 6

sexbefore marrige.. shame shame shame.... is he dating you just for the sex? ever though t of that? he should be considerate that you have een working hard all day, but give in sometimes to spice up the night.. compromise, oh, use protection.

Answer 7

tell him to have a ****