went out with this boy a few days ago on first date we had never met before but talked online, anyway everything went well i think and he even gave me a quick hug before we left which shocked me seeing how we had never met before, anyway i sent a text saying thanks for the day and he text back saying he would love to meet up sometime again. is this a good sign? i mean he didn't have to text back or hug me, but now online he seems distance and i'm always the first to say hi, i know boys are always rubbish when replying back and that you can't tell a persons emotions though the msn. but whats going on does he like me? am i being paranoid? please help what should i do? Stay offline for a bit? is this all a waste of time and effort? god how i wish i could read minds!any ideas please help!
2007-03-03 07:02:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him
2007-03-03 07:05:24 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there are mixed signals. The hug and the text message seem good signs. But if over the msn he acts distant, it's strange. Then again, you are right, you can't read emotion through there, some guys are on there but don't actually like to chat. They are just weird like that. Maybe it would be a good idea to stay offline for a while. Have him wonder what you're up to, so maybe he'll call and ask you out again.
2007-03-03 07:09:57 · answer #2 · answered by jade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he met you in person after chatting online with you and gave you a hug, then fine that could have been just a normal hug.
You text him to say thanks, meaning you kinda like him too.
Well, if he didnt text back no big deal, but he did and he said he wanted to meet up with you again. So I think he might also like you somehow.
But hey take things slow, maybe you should try to keep your distance for a little while as you were saying.
You should find out more about him or get to know him better before you allow your emotions to run wild.
He might be committed to someone or something and you might not know.
if you really like him, you can meet him again, but maybe with a friend or some friends, just to be on the safe side.
Good luck with your friend.
2007-03-03 07:10:33 · answer #3 · answered by ggoldiee23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a similar problem - I've been seeing this bloke for two months but he doesn't text or phone me for days sometimes which is really frustrating! Men have a completely different perspective on time and relationships tho and think completely the opposite to women. I think it's a good sign that he hugged you and text you back but blokes just need space to sort themselves out and decide what to do next. Us women analyse things and think to much instead of just excepting it and then doing something else. Try not to seem so needy/all into him and he'll come running. If in doubt i suggest you read John Gray - Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus and youl soon realise whats going on.
Good luck, i hope it all works out for you.
2007-03-03 07:18:19 · answer #4 · answered by bird_in_a_bubble 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to my girlfriend. I met her via online and from the very start she fell in love with me. She told me it felt like years instead of days. Somehow she managed to let me do all the driving in the relationship, and after awhile in I was really falling for her.
Its hard to do, but don't overreact, hold your ground, keep looking around for other guys. You may like this one now, but there is always a better model somewhere else. Let the social setting of relationships take it course, and before you know it, you will be saying, "I love you"
2007-03-03 07:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by TEFMLB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play games - if you want to see him, then go for it. Text him back (not immediately). If it doesn't work out, chalk it up to a lesson. BUT at least you went after something you wanted.
=)
p.s. He sounds a bit shy, maybe he has the same doubts you do.
2007-03-03 07:13:41 · answer #6 · answered by S.N. C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
er. dont be persistant.
that just makes you look desperate.
and YES!!!! it REALLY IS a waste of time and effort!!!! just face the fact that you are going to die alone. that is the solution to all problems.
that or hire a private detective to follow him and see what he's doing....
2007-03-03 07:16:26 · answer #7 · answered by the misomaniac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 10:05:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him on the phone and talk to him. Ask him the questions that are on your mind, but it sounds to me like he may like you and it scares him. Don't pressure him into anything, just call, talk, and ask the questions that you have on your mind.
2007-03-03 07:07:44 · answer #9 · answered by Steel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think- he did enjoy his time with you-
just dont message him- for a while
try not to be overwhemling or annoyinf-
and if u not talk to him for a few days, he will think if you,
and if he diidnt text u back- he would have been an @$$!
2007-03-03 07:07:34 · answer #10 · answered by buddah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him, just like that!
this is the only way you can have feedback and have experience for the next time.
you go girl!
2007-03-03 07:09:37 · answer #11 · answered by cochelona 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋