we talk alot together. go out alot togetha. we are in the same class in college. i think she likes me and i definetly like her
is it jus lust???????????????
2007-03-03 06:53:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-03-03 07:13:22 · update #1
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2007-03-03 07:31:01 · update #2
maybe it's just lust, you guys should go out sometime and see where it goes
2007-03-03 06:55:44 · answer #1 · answered by www.japanvideogames.com 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
age difference isn't all its cracked up to be, there isn't a big problem, you are both adults. the love of my life is 8 years older than me, and I have even seen 15 year age diffs work out for the better. the thing to remember is that all relationships start out as lust of some sort, physically, intellectually or the like... then those feelings can either multiply into love or stay lust, or even go away. so, unless the age diff weirds you out too much then go with it, what could it hurt? if you don't then you will never know what the outcome would have been :)
2007-03-03 15:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by dread_siren 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell you if you are going through a phase or just lusting over this woman. I do know that some men and women sometimes are just attracted to a mate that is several years older that them. I don't think it should be a problem, but it is definitely a topic that you have to talk about in the relationship if it ever becomes serious. Go for it! Ask her if the feeling of attraction is mutual.
2007-03-10 21:37:41 · answer #3 · answered by xicka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither of you is under 18 so the age being a problem is out the window. If you like her and want to prgress things further than friendship then go for it, you'll never know how she feels about you until you try. Even if it is lust, that's not a bad thing, you need lust in a successful relationship and it's in most every relationship. That's how most get started. Throw caution to the wind and go for it (unless she's married). Good luck
2007-03-03 15:03:17 · answer #4 · answered by Steel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would saw yes. This is more common than you may know (26-30 year old women with men 10 year younger) Wait 6 months or after classes are over to see how things are then.
2007-03-03 15:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by TBAR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r over 18 i think that u should be a man and accept the fact that u are gettin older and young gurls are not ur thing anymore.Just think in the future u both will be successful.
2007-03-03 14:59:44 · answer #6 · answered by Cherelle M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Age Aint Nuttin' But A Number!
2007-03-03 14:57:22 · answer #7 · answered by *Gina* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Theres nothing wrong with liking or loving someone older than you, my hubby is older than I am, and we been together for 10 years now so give it a chance u might enjoy it. Maybe it's Lust or Love? Only u know. GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-03-03 15:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by hazelbrown8301 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Been there, done that... and she gave me a much better "education". Hey, you are both adults and there is nothing wrong with seeing where this goes, but I can tell you from experience that this is probably just lust.
2007-03-03 15:02:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really her be with her be with her. The age range is 9 years but that should not make a difference.
2007-03-03 15:03:19 · answer #10 · answered by A Journey 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know what's to fall for a girl right away. I don't believe that myself. But you should get close to her. And see where it goes from there. Make sure you ain't married or engaged. Good Luck!
2007-03-03 14:58:13 · answer #11 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋