And now my girlfriend has found out about it. I really didn't
mean to get into all of this it just happened. Now my girlfriend says we are over. What should I do to get back
with my girlfriend?
2007-03-03 06:52:20 · 19 answers · asked by Nero 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One time at band camp.
2007-03-03 06:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by Steve B 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You hurt her. VERY MUCH. You say it like it's nothing. You betrayed her. If she has any self respect, she won't forgive you. You sleeping with someone else just shows that you don't really care for her in the first place. So why do you want her back?
You could try and make up excuses, like you were drunk, and didn't know what you were doing. That you're sorry. That you love her. That it will never ever happen again. That what you have together is awesome and that you don't want to lose it over something so stupid. But you have to mean it, and then maybe, just maybe, she'll consider getting back with you. Sorry to say this, but most probably she won't forgive you, or if she does, she'll harbor resentment and bring it up again, and again. It's very hard to get over an infidelity.
2007-03-03 07:00:48 · answer #2 · answered by jade 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This sort of thing takes time for a woman. See men think of things as no big deal but women are emotional and can hold grudges for a long time. I would just try and accept the fact that you ****** up big time and it's going to take time to heal her trust in you.
2007-03-03 06:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by PuertoRicanEmoGirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were your girlfriend...I wouldn't take you back!! Once a cheater always a cheater!! And that's how most women look at it! You didn't have enough respect for her the first time...what will make the second time any different! Doesn't matter if you meant to or not...it takes two to tango sweetie!!!
2007-03-03 06:56:31 · answer #4 · answered by Mandi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there isnt a real way to do that, you betrayed her trust and more than likey you will never be able to get that trust back, there are slim chances for you... sorry for the bad news
2007-03-03 06:56:09 · answer #5 · answered by dread_siren 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your gf takes sex that seriously you may be too late, and it's over. Also too late to realize you should kept it in your pants! Sorry to hear it, getting dumped hurts.
2007-03-03 06:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
be honest . would u accept a girlfriend who cheated on u ? !!!! I'm sorry but it's over !
2007-03-03 07:07:03 · answer #7 · answered by persian_ladyyy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it just happened? having sex with some1else while u have a girl dont just happen...oh boy ur in trouble.
2007-03-03 06:56:33 · answer #8 · answered by Just_Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you missed her so much and she wasn't fun and you kept thinking of you to finish the job and you won't do it again with her or any of her friends even if they return my call.
2007-03-03 06:58:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Tell her your sorry and good bye no going back
2007-03-03 06:58:36 · answer #10 · answered by workin_man66 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋