HERES THE DEAL......MY BOYFRIEND AND I GO TO MIDDLE SCHOOL,HES ONE GRADE UP FROM ME.......WEVE ONLY BEEN DATING FOR TWO WEKS.WHEN WE START FOLLING AROUND WE USALLY HIT EACH OTHER....NOT VIOENTLY...MORE LIKE LOVE TAPS.....BUT SOMETIMES HE LEAVES LITTLE BRUISES HOW DO I TELL HIM TO STOP?WITHOUT SOUNDIN MEAN?
2007-03-03 06:50:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop hitting or tapping him. If he hits or taps you after you stop then ask him politely to stop. Tell him you realized you have been bruising from the fooling and decided to be bruise free. Good luck!
2007-03-03 06:54:57 · answer #1 · answered by dry2th 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not a good idea, any how. So tell him that I do not think that the Hitting or love taps is a good idea, and that it hurts and leaves bruises on me. Say I hope that you understand!
2007-03-03 06:57:06 · answer #2 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he is hitting too hard. Show him the bruises. Remind him that you are a delicate flower. Tell him that you love the way he plays with you, just not so hard. Hold his hand and give him lots of pretty smiles when you tell him. I promise he won't think you're mean.
2007-03-03 07:12:52 · answer #3 · answered by Raul D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could u as a female think its mean to ask ur bf to stop hittin u hard when its hurts u.As ur boyfriend he should understand that and respect it at the same time.
2007-03-03 06:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by Cherelle M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just show him the bruises and say "look what you've done to me! I'm a girl you know, you have to be gentle with me!"
2007-03-03 06:54:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well like the next time you all are joking around say that one really hurt. that might get across to him or tell him not so hard and keep playing. thats what i would do. hope it helps.
2007-03-03 06:54:12 · answer #6 · answered by DiP13sK01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy tell him that people are question me if your boyfriend is beating you up. Or just tell him stop, because he needs to understand that men have more strengh than women. lol
2007-03-03 06:56:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be straight forward with him and do not feel shy to tell him that , if you really want him to stop, tell him that directly and he will understand , he should know your likes and dislikes
2007-03-03 06:56:02 · answer #8 · answered by cuttiiee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say "stop". Pretty easy. Don't call him any names, just say "no more please".
If that doesn't work... hit him with a brick.
2007-03-03 06:54:02 · answer #9 · answered by gremlinbass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just be stright forward with him like when he does that again just tell him to not do that any more
2007-03-03 06:54:57 · answer #10 · answered by katrin t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋