2007-03-03 06:48:10 · 9 answers · asked by ItAlIaNfRi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he will be short tempered with you. will be gone alot. have his cell off. work performance is down. increased money, cellphone, and clothes. He will all of sudden want to lose wieght and make physical changes. not always but these are most of the signs. A good one is if he has never went limp during perfomance and that happens that means his head is getting to him so go in for the attack and you will get the face or answer. don't look to deep if you can't handle it though. chances are if he is cheating or you are suspecting there is a problem going on even if he ain't.
2007-03-06 07:35:40 · answer #1 · answered by BettieRulz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save yourself a lot of time and break up with him now. Its obvious you cant/dont trust him.
If you want to do it the hard was and know FOR SURE here are a few tips if youre despirate-
Dont have sex with him for a while, maybe a week or so if you can without him asking questions. During foreplay see if he has the sex smell down there.
Check his phone or AIM history.
Ask any of your mutual friends if they think somethings going on, but ask them not to tell him you asked, unless you want him to know youre suspicious.
If he tells you hes working late or out with so and so here or there, call his work phone number if he has one to ask/ tell him something or show up with your friends to where he said he would be (say your friend picked the place). If hes not lying he has nothing to worry about right?
Question him about any changes in his behavior, but try not to turn it into a fight. When you start fighting all the time about it he might be more careful. You'll never know for sure unless he tells you (which they rarely do), or you find evidence. How are you going to find evidence if he is being more careful?
Play detective, and MAKE SURE you 2 are using condoms. Who knows what this other girl might have, if there is another girl.
PS i have a lot of friends who have gone to great lengths to catch a cheater. Dont think im some kind of crazy person. lol
2007-03-03 15:31:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You find out through the simple things. He all of a sudden gotta go, or he does things that he never did before. You can easily put an end to his "cheating" ways but putting a ownership mark(a hickey) not so big but also not too small just enough so it's noticeable.I know not so hot right but then you'll never have to worry about him being with another girl unless she's OK being a sideline hoe(Monica's song)
2007-03-03 14:55:07 · answer #3 · answered by lil_lisa921 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you might notice that he's giving into every decision you guys are making just to make you think that he wants the same thing as you; but in reality he's doing so just you won't notice that he's not really here with you. Or he might start wanting to spend time with the guys, or working late.
2007-03-03 14:55:37 · answer #4 · answered by Samora 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blast this song whenever he's around and see what kind of reaction you get!
By Carrie Underwood:
Before He Cheats
Right now he's probably slow dancing with a bleached-blond tramp,
and she's probably getting frisky...
right now, he's probably buying her some fruity little drink cause she can't shoot whiskey...
Right now, he's probably up behind her with a pool-stick, showing her how to shoot a combo...
And he don't know...
That I dug my key into the side of his pretty little suped up 4 wheel drive,
carved my name into his leather seat...
I took a Louisville slugger to both head lights,
slashed a hole in all 4 tires...
And maybe next time he'll think before he cheats.
Right now, she's probably up singing some
white-trash version of Shania karoke..
Right now, she's probably saying "I'm drunk"
and he's a thinking that he's gonna lucky,
Right now, he's probably dabbing 3 dollars worth of that bathroom Polo...
And he don't know...
That I dug my key into the side of his pretty little suped up 4 wheel drive,
carved my name into his leather seat,
I took a Louisville slugger to both head lights,
slashed a hole in all 4 tires...
And maybe next time he'll think before he cheats.
I might saved a little trouble for the next girl,
Cause the next time that he cheats...
2007-03-05 20:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by Reserved 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Try and found out who you think he's having an affair with then ask him "Are you having an affair with .........?" then if he replies "I'm not going to dignify that with an answer" then he probably is.
2007-03-03 14:55:38 · answer #6 · answered by flash69boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he immediately denies it or get mad, then he's cheating.
2007-03-03 14:51:17 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. Angel.. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
his johnson will smell like someone else
2007-03-03 14:51:38 · answer #8 · answered by edna b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask that question, then he is
2007-03-03 14:51:22 · answer #9 · answered by curious_One 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋