okay my ex-boyfriend of about two months keeps doing things and i'm wondering what to do about it. First off everytime I'm close to him or near him in school his voice gets louder and he starts moving his arms around when talking to someone. Second he is always looking at me and then when I do look at him he finds a girl to talk to if i'm right there or makes a big deal of it and the last and weirdest one is this if he see's me he turns away (even tho i'm not trying to talk to him) and then does one of the other thing i mentioned before. so what is his problem and what should i do about it!! oh p.s. we don't talk and I try to stay away from him
2007-03-03 06:44:42 · 14 answers · asked by Maggie may 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh did i forget to metion that my once opon a time best friend dated him the next weekend we dated and i know that doesn't help his case but why does he want me jelous? can someone plz answer that question
2007-03-03 09:05:32 · update #1
Isn't it obvious? He's totally and completely still in love with you. He misses you and because he knows that he cant have you again, he's hurt so he tries to make you hurt too. He tries to get you to be jealous by talking to other girls and he tries to get your attention by talking loudly and acting out. He turns away because he wants to let you know that he doesn't care about you and he doesn't want to see you. The tuth is, it hurts when you see the one person you love and can't get them. I bet it's you who broke it off because he would have never let you go. He's lonely. You don't have to malice him, you can talk to him as a friend, but he'll only hurt more. I don't know what you'll do, but whatever the choise, Good luck.
2007-03-03 06:57:30 · answer #1 · answered by Girl-In-Blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, he's obviously trying to draw attention to himself whenever you're around, probably so you can see how happy and okay he is without you, how he's moved on, whatever. He sounds like an immature child, truthfully, probably not ready for a relationship with you anyway. The best thing you can do is completely ignore him and don't let him think you care in the least what he is doing. Don't get upset, don't create drama to counteract what he's doing, don't talk about him to your girlfriends or bad mouth him, just rise above him. He'll quit quickly if he gets no feedback for his actions and you'll be the bigger person in the end, which it sounds like you already are. He could also, however, just be really uncomfortable whenever you are around, and thus act like an idiot. Either way - not boyfriend material imho.
2007-03-03 14:52:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue staying away from him, all he's trying to do is get your attention and make you jealous so you'll come running back to him. Don't fall for his childish pranks. But there are times when a swift kick in the butt is deserved and this sounds like one of those times. If his behavior is disrupting you at school, I'd suggest talking with a guidance counselor to see if the school system can put an end to his idiotic behavior.
2007-03-03 14:51:47 · answer #3 · answered by Steel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok...you have answered your own question. EX-BOYFRIEND. Now you are trying to what...make him your friend? Guys don't roll like that. It is hard for them to be around an ex, especially if they don't have an attraction to you anymore.
Keep doing what you're doing and the problem will still be all yours. Ignore him for real, even in his presence. It will be hard, as it sounds like you still have feelings for him but you will feel better in time. Whatever you do don't deny your feelings.
Good luck
2007-03-03 14:54:46 · answer #4 · answered by TBAR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep doing what you are doing - staying away from him. He is probably upset you aren´t pining after him. It´s a blow to his male pride, but doesn´t necessarily mean he wants you back. Just wants you to want HIM back. Stay strong. You probably had good reasons for breaking up cause he sounds kind of immature.
2007-03-03 14:49:38 · answer #5 · answered by sunniedaisies 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do about it, but continue to ignore him. Once he finally get that you're no longer into him, he'll move on. Good Luck even if you don't need it!!!
2007-03-03 14:50:59 · answer #6 · answered by Samora 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just trying to get you jealous. Do the same thing back to him and let him see how you feel! It's mean what he's doing, and he's just trying to hurt you. Ignore him would be my advice. Good Luck!
2007-03-03 14:49:19 · answer #7 · answered by PPan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is trying to attract your attention and make you jealous.
2007-03-03 14:49:56 · answer #8 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is obviously trying to make you jealous.
2007-03-03 14:48:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he kinda hates u and he is jealous at the same time
2007-03-03 14:48:36 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋