I'm getting married in July, things are going pear shaped with the plans, im freeking out help?

Question

Cars are still not confirmed, darling hubby to be is "sorting it" parents freeking because they dont think the hall is big enought.

Answer 1

firstly congrats, secondly BREATH!
firstly write out a list of everything that you want to do for it.
then place into 3 catagories, urgent (like booking bands, photographers, churchs, dress etc) NEED to do ( like people to invite etc) and GO OVER( what food to serve at wedding etc)
If its too much look into a wedding lpanner but that increase costs a lot!
Instead, get a family member or a friend to help you go through the lists, with your partner.

Just remember, its YOUR day, its all about showing poeple that you and your partner love each other and want to celebarte with those people in the sanctity of marraige.
Dont be forced into having a certain band, or inviting neighbours of the dog you walks friend. just keep it simple and enjoyable.

ITs a once in a lifetime thing, just keep sane, and treat yourslf, get a facial or a massage every 2nd week to keep you sane.

Good luck!

Answer 2

Here's the bottom line: you are marrying a man that you love and loves you back--YAY!!!!! If the details don't all work out perfectly and your parents are freaking out, try to just keep things in perspective. A wedding is a ceremony and celebration of two people committing to each other. Try to laugh more, get plenty of sleep, and really look forward to your big day as a great party with friends and family. You still have 4 months, which is plenty of time to iron things out. This will only happen once for you, so enjoy it just as much as you possibly can! Congratulations!!!

Answer 3

Sit down with a large glass of wine and a good friend.
Make a list of everything that needs to be done,
make a list of everything thats been done already(puts a bit of perspective on things)
in order of importence deligate the jobs to trusted friends and family...people love to be involved
Relax it's all about the service the rest of it really is not that importent in the whole scheme of things

Answer 4

HIre a wedding planner or get a well known friend or family member to help you or take over the planning.Delegate! And remember most brides feel this way at least briefly. I'd help you if you live in NC.

Answer 5

Surely if you are thinking of getting married, and planning the event is getting too much, you would first turn to your spouse-to-be? And if the problem is that one of you does not want to marry the other any more, then the problem is solved! What do you expect from asking Yahoo Answers?

Answer 6

My daughter got married at St Mellion Golf club in Cornwall and it was the most fantastic day.
Hope you have a long and happy life together and tonight you should have a relaxing bath, give yourself a facial and go to bed looking forward to a long life with your future husband.

Answer 7

Just relax, think things through, write out what you want done and what others can help you with, and try to get help, if not from anyone, at least your family and close friends can help you.

freaking out will only waste your time and you'll end up having nothing done.

I wish you the best in your wedding.

Answer 8

that's because it's coming near the big day. anyting you try and do will seem to go wrong for you but you know yourself that it is going right.maybe your trying too hard to get everything done too fast why dont you just take every day as it comes and then hopefully all will be sorted. good luck your wedding day is a day to remember

Answer 9

That's 5 months but someone needs to be a decision maker immediately

Answer 10

First you need to calm down, discuss things with your the man you are going to be marrying. Also with your wedding party and let them help you sort things out and organise things. The more people you have helping you the easier it will be.