Ok, i work with this girl, who ive liked since we met, almost 4 months now. I am extreemly shy and Ive just seriously started thinking about asking her out on a date. Im 19, and never been on a date. Im planning on asking her on monday or tuesday night, and think she will say yes. If she dose say yes, im planning on getting her some rosses, and leaving it on her car so when she leaves she finds them. ive actually had other people i work with, tell me they think shell say yes too. I work almost every night, or have class so the date has to end by about 4:30 so i can get to class/work, and most likely she will be working with me right after the date. Where should i take her? i was thinking of getting lunch and going to see a movie, or maybee just a movie since well be together all night at work anyway?Any help would be greatly apreciated.
2007-03-03 06:42:04 · 11 answers · asked by davidvbinder 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i live in new england, so ouside dates are not possible, well for a first date. we both work together so i know a lot about her already. but i know what you mean, you cant reallu talk in the movies.
2007-03-03 06:56:04 · update #1
ya with the roses, i only planned on getting one or 2 to leave on her car, what can i say im a hopeless romantic. you really dont know how long its taken me to even get so far as to almost asking her our, i was going to last week and whenever i thought about asking her i felt like i was going to throw up, but im past that now, but i can just imagine how redmy face is gana be when i do ask her.
2007-03-03 07:01:49 · update #2
Even if she does say no, you have courage and that very sexy. If she says yes, I would not take her to a movie b/c you want to have chance to talk to her. So, that she can the real you. Since you do not have a lot of time...b/c you have school/work I would prepare a picnic. Have it already prepared and take her to a nice park. Or you can grab subway sandwiches and take to the park. I would not get a lot of roses...just get one such as either red or white. Or try to go for ice cream or a snowcone (depending on where you live). Good Luck and relax!!
2007-03-03 06:52:50 · answer #1 · answered by Aron H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The roses are a very romantic gesture...HOWEVER...maybe leave that to a subsequent date? Some women MIGHT find it a little too much on the first date. A nice lunch and/or cinema sounds great...let her choose the film.
Ask her at the end of the date if she'd like to see you again....don't leave it otherwise she may think you didn't enjoy it. (Well, that's if you DID enjoy it!)
Have a lovely time, best wishes.
2007-03-03 06:47:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What time do you all get off work. I take it you work in retail or a resturant, but I dont know. If you two don't get off too late take her to a movie in the city or something. I dont know where your from but on my first date with my current girlfriend I took her to Cleveland for Dinner at the HOB then we walked around to the movie theater. It was great! Just make it a date dont ask her out because she might not be everything you want. So test her out. dont commit your self unless your sure.
2007-03-03 06:50:55 · answer #3 · answered by delldude405 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing about going to the movies, is you can't have a conversation. You need to talk so you can get to know each other. Lunch sounds like the best plan
Save the roses until she doe's something to deserve them, you don't want to come on too strong.
2007-03-03 06:48:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not unavoidably, lol this is stated as a date, i think of because of fact they set a date jointly on which they're gonna flow out. i think of diverse people do incredibly some issues on their dates.
2016-10-17 04:42:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe lunch on your day off. If you want to talk it is better in a restaurant than in a movie theater :). I'd hold off on the gifts until you know that she'd appreciate them.
2007-03-03 06:47:44 · answer #6 · answered by TBAR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you're so crunched on time, you can just take the safe route with lunch and a dinner, or lunch and a nice walk in a nice area
2007-03-03 06:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by www.japanvideogames.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend took me to an aquarium once and it was a very nice date, bit more unusual.
2007-03-03 06:47:19 · answer #8 · answered by siouxsie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should go to the movies and when its over you should stop the car and kiss and make out with her
2007-03-03 06:45:59 · answer #9 · answered by EeyoreLover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you sound like youve already got this first date stuff all figured out... i think the roses are an extremely sweet idea...
2007-03-03 06:45:30 · answer #10 · answered by alex jade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋