me and my bf split up and i want to get over him fast so if he does come back i can tell him where to go and not in the polite terms either.
2007-03-03 06:36:27 · 23 answers · asked by iluvcascada 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the best cure for a breakup is a new bf. definitely.
2007-03-03 06:41:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chocolates a good one :)! Take your mind off of him; there are plently of things to do just relax doing something you enjoy. Think positive thoughts! It's his loss and there are loads more great guys around who'd be lucky to have you. Try and get your best mates round and have a girly night in, they'll boost your confidence no end. Try not to dwell on things; whatevers happened has happened for a reason, it's over at least so move on. Just think when he comes back (which if he has any sense he will) it means he obv. thinks your worth coming back for so take it as a compliment, but my advice is to no fall for it- if it hasn't worked this time, chances are it wont work next time! (and relish in the fact your the one turning him down! lol) Then get back out there, cuz theyl be millions of better guys :o) good luck!
2007-03-03 06:47:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think, God has better things in store for you, Now you need to get it out of your mind, about getting even with him, you will never get over him that way, because if you do that, you will be no better then he was! Read books on self esteem, work on your self. Now the next boyfriend, you just be friends for a while, so you can get to know each other. and then you can move the relationship to another level! Thank God that you got rid of bad rubbish!
2007-03-03 06:45:06 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, there is no fast way to get over it. If you love this person then that takes time to overcome. You just have to be strong if you definitely know he is not going to be able to give you the respect and understanding you deserve. If he does come back, tell him you cannot de-value yourself. Tell him you will always care about him, but you will not work as a couple and should explore this beautiful life. We are meant to love and that does not mean just one!
2007-03-03 06:41:31 · answer #4 · answered by dry2th 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DON'T LIVE IN THE PAST, AND don't concern yourself with "if's" for the future. Sounds like you are holding a wee bit of hostility for this guy... it's OK to be hurt and angry - - just do whatever POSITIVE things you can to get rid of the negative feelings AND thoughts. Bad energy does not make things better - face it then replace it. Why concern yourself with what "might" happen AND desire ugliness IF it happens??? YUCK!!!! While dude is out partying, you sit and build CRAP for yourself!!! That makes HIM in control of YOU!! YUCK!!!
2007-03-03 06:52:25 · answer #5 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to go on with life meaning find someone else. You don't have to jump straight into a relationship but just go out with people and not think about him.Think about the reason the breakup happened.
2007-03-03 06:41:12 · answer #6 · answered by lil_lisa921 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first thing to do is get rid of any reminders good or bad. Pictures, Teddybears, flowers, anything that could make your memory flash. Next keep yourself busy with things that you didn't do with him. Finally get out there and find MR. RIGHT, he's out there waiting for you!
2007-03-03 06:44:47 · answer #7 · answered by blueeyedbigmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes time if you really loved him.. sounds like you hate him and sounds like he did something really bad to hurt you. in which case you have to keep reminding yourself that he broke up with someone as amazing as you. and it's called a break up because it's broken.. either one or both of you have thought the relationship has lost it's value. you need to get busy doing other things, and find someone else to love - but When you are Ready.. because Don't have just a rebound guy to hurt. but just stay busy with things you used to love to do before you got busy with him, or even come up with new hobbies. good luck! you Will move on, and you Will find someone new too! - someone who will treat you how you deserve!
2007-03-03 06:41:37 · answer #8 · answered by coolio 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think the one true way to get over a bf takes a while, but if you like another guy then ask him out and tell your ex that your going out with someone, if he comes back.
2007-03-03 06:42:07 · answer #9 · answered by The Jonas Brothers Rule!!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the easiest way to get over him is by avoiding any contact with him at all, whether in person, by phone/text, email or instant messaging. you need to get him out of your life and realise that there is more to life than your ex.
try and enjoy yourself and go out with your friends, perhaps join a new club and meet new people. make plans with friends for every friday and saturday night for the next month, and stick to them.
make a list of your ex's bad qualities and think of the things he used to do that got on your nerves rather than focusing on the nice things and realise that you will meet someone who is even more perfect for you.
keep busy to stop thinking about him so much and you will get over him.
get a new haircut or buy a new outfit that you feel sexy in and you will feel better about yourself and make a list of your good qualities that he never truely appreciated.
cry if you want to cry, rely on friends for support, talk about it and one day you'll wake up a will feel so much better about things and realise that you're over him!
hope this helps, good luck!
2007-03-03 06:46:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on your personality.
You can meditate and clear him out.
You can burn pictures as a release.
You can tell him you've moved on.
You can tell yourself you've moved on.
Some would want to think about it in excruciating detail and end it. Others would rather have a quick fling. Whatever floats your boat.
Good luck :]
2007-03-03 06:40:11 · answer #11 · answered by kttm :] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋