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How can you tell if a girl loves you or not?
What kind of signs do they give?

2007-03-03 06:11:20 · 20 answers · asked by FuzzyCloud 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

20 answers

You'll know if she sticks around =)

2007-03-03 06:18:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Everyone expresses love differently. But generally, i think you can tell by how she treats you and just how important she lets you know you are to her. I'm not saying her life has to revolve around you for it to be love, but if she cares for how you feel, and really tries to be good to you is a good sign.
If she loves you, she will eventually say it. Given she thinks that you care for her too. Some won't admit to it because they think you don't feel the same way.

2007-03-03 14:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by jade 2 · 0 0

sorry its long but here u go....

Most people use two common techniques to determine whether or not their partner is in-love with them:

1. Ask

The straight forward approach is typically what most people use.

"Do you love me?" one would ask the other.
"Why, of course I do, Honey."
or
"What do you think?" replies the spouse.

And, if there is sincerity in the delivery, the questioning would stop right there.

However, if there was something insincere about the answer, the following technique would be used:

2. Observe

Does the actions of your spouse support the idea that they are in-love with you? Are you treated with care? Are you treated in a "loving" manner? Does your spouse act like he/she is in-love with you? This approach to answering the question of being in-love or not tends to be the litmus test. Most of us judge a person's heart by their actions. Right or wrong, that's what we do. When the actions are in direct conflict with what the person says, suspicion typically follows.

Although the above techniques are used on a frequent basis, they are both wrought with the potential for error.


Ask yourself "Should _____ be in love with me?" In other words, are you giving your spouse a reason to be in-love with you?


Emotional Needs and Love Busters
In order to answer your own question, you must first know two things:

What are your spouse's most important emotional needs and how does he/she like them to be met?
What are your Love Busters (from your spouse's perspective) and have you eliminated them?
Without knowing the answers to the above questions, you are guessing. And what's more, if you don't know the answers, you are probably tainting your guesses with how you like your own needs to be met (emotional needs) and what you believe is irritating (Love Busters).

Bottom line
You must be successful at developing and maintaining your skills to meet your spouse's needs and also, demonstrate an ability to protect him/her from yourself (your Love Busters). Because it boils down to this: If you're not successful at giving your spouse a reason to be in-love with you, then he/she won't be.

2007-03-03 14:22:37 · answer #3 · answered by madrep69 1 · 0 0

In love with you, for real? They always want to talk, be with you, they do nice things for you, always answer and return your calls. But it is more a feeling than actions. Maybe you should ask her what her feelings are for you. Unless you're a high schooler and this is just some girl who smiles at you when you passs her in the hall. Love is very powerful and not kid's stuff.

2007-03-03 14:19:36 · answer #4 · answered by MJ 3 · 0 0

If the girl looks at you, alot then obviously she wants you to come over and talk to her.
Which you should do believe me!
its mostly the looks you get off of her that count.
unless its obvious flirting.
But if its someone you are with, and you want to know if they really love you.
If you ask them how they feel about you and the begin to tell you how much they love you, then at least you know they actually do because they want to take time to tell you how much they love you.
I hope that helped
If not sorry =]

2007-03-03 15:37:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Depends on what kind of person she is really...
But with out a fail they will make sure that they look spotless, not a hair out of place to look good for you.
Some girls will be affectionate, some play hard to get,some tease, it just depends on her..best way to find out is to ask her..if she see a future for your relationship, if she does then at least you know shes serious about you...

2007-03-03 14:17:03 · answer #6 · answered by Kitty 2 · 0 0

Apart from telling u that she loves u...giving up her time for u, doing sweet things, giving up something that means a lot to her for u.

2007-03-03 14:15:31 · answer #7 · answered by Lily 3 · 0 0

well, if she stares at you a lot or even sometimes. Maybe you should start up a converstion with her. Don't ask her if she likes you in that spicific conversation, but maybe after you guys start talking more, and maybe become friends, sorta. you know what i'm saying? Do you like this girl? If so, do what it said and start up a conversation. Maybe she does like you. You never know until you try.

2007-03-03 14:18:33 · answer #8 · answered by scrappygurl14 2 · 0 0

You will see that she wants to see/talk to you everyday. They think about you so much that they will do/buy things that they know you would like. The best sign is the way that she smiles at you when she sees you..

2007-03-03 14:16:33 · answer #9 · answered by amber81472 1 · 0 0

she will give u smile every time she c u.
she will try 2 spend more time wid u.
she will b jelious if u talk 22222 much wid other girls.
she will buy u gifts.
she will call u often.
nnn .............
different girls have diff thinking but these r common behaviour.
best of luck.

2007-03-03 14:18:12 · answer #10 · answered by sherry 3 · 0 1

it is hard to tell i get all tounge tied and blush. i try to get as much attention as possible just as long as i don't feel in the way sometimes i say "i hate you" then blush i try not to make i contact = {

2007-03-04 00:35:30 · answer #11 · answered by Aphrodite 4 · 0 0

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