My ex Andy and I broke up in Nov. and we get along like an on and off thing... now Andy's like,"I'm sorry for being a jerk, I hope we can still be friends." He changes his mind all the time though!
Oh, and this guy Thomas says he likes my bff Allana, and I kinda like Thomas, and he says he's starting to like me now too... he always hugs me, and has his arm around me, but I feel like he's using me to make Allana jelous (even though she doesnt like him). What should I do?
2007-03-03 06:06:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As far as Andy is concerned he is not sorry for "being a jerk" or he wouldn't be doing that mental torture thing he is doing. On now off tomorrow. I doesn' want you but he knows you are a good person so he doesnt want anyone else with you. That is why he is doing that. Now for Thomas you have to watch him becasue I think his intentions are not the most honest. I feel as you do ....he is trying either to make your friend jealous or just feeding into the male ego thing which coaxes him to see if he could possibly get away with taking to you both. I'm curious does he know you ex? Maybe there is some underlining ulterior motive if he does... For now I would distance myself from Thomas until he proves he is genuine and with Andy I would let him know that you don't apprecite on again off again relatioinships. I think only a friendship him would be best nothing more. But this is my opinion. Good luck in whatever you choose to do..
2007-03-03 06:48:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them
2007-03-03 14:11:27 · answer #2 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋