I've been seeing this guy, and in the past, i've had my heartbroken, so major trust issues have become my main concern.
I love the way this guy is. He is non-comforming to the type of males that are usually out there (too many don't show any emotions or express feelings) so I am growing something for this guy.
He is the most trusting guy out there, but I am just getting to know him.
The way we met: I added him on to msn a few years back since we were taking the same satellite class. I just started talking to him on msn a few weeks back, and each night we've been communicating and found out we were so similar. We both go to the same college and met up yesterday. He seemed very surprised when he firs saw me, so much that he couldn't even make words from his mouth and smiled the whole time we hung out. Later on that day while playing video games, I jokingly said "I hate you (nice and cute)" and he said "Well, I love you" really quietly then shut up.
2007-03-03 06:05:33 · 6 answers · asked by Lilly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Does this guy have feelings for me. He seemed to respect me the whole time, not even making a move. After we hung out for awhile, he even suggested if I wanted to see a movie, I was the one that said that "It'd best I be heading off"...
I mean... I couldn't believe he even mentioned the word "love" to me... Guys usually wouldn't want to send that type of message.
If he interested in starting a relationship?
2007-03-03 06:08:24 · update #1
Unfortunately, you're still burning from your experiences; you are a bit jaded.
Good news, I've got some really great advice.
It is understandable that you are afraid. I suggest that you take your time to get to know him. If it is meant to work out, it will no matter what pace you take to try to understand your partner. Remember, you're not in a race to win him and he's not either.
The one thing that you cannot do is hold him to what someone else did to you. You cannot compare him to your ex-bf. You must not; we guys do not like to feel that we are being measured-up to someone else.
In the end, it comes down to communication. If you want to be sure, you'd have to build some rapport. If you get to know him enough, you will be able to gauge if there are any significant changes in him. You can ask if something is bothering him.
Do not let someone immature from your past dictate how you will live your life. It will be a shame if you allow your ex- to ruin what you have now.
Best wishes
2007-03-03 06:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by s_p_u_d_n_i_k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its hard to trust or be with another guy again because of your last one , but just remmember that not all guys are the same. go ahead give him a chance you never know he might be the one.
2007-03-03 14:15:40 · answer #2 · answered by shantel[89] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi lilly,
do not jump to the conclusion. wait and watch. spend more time with him. tell him what u feel about him. seek his feelings. give a letter. if responds positively then go ahead. enjoy the life!
2007-03-03 14:12:40 · answer #3 · answered by amarnath 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust your gut
2007-03-03 14:07:54 · answer #4 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LUCKY FOR YOU!!!!
You better be with him or you'll regret it for the rest of your life!!!
He is the man!!!
2007-03-03 14:17:41 · answer #5 · answered by lacey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have your doubts, then he probably isn't
2007-03-03 14:08:24 · answer #6 · answered by curious_One 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋