SHould i be annoyed?

Question

I always see my bf on weekends as we live quite far away, I cant just nip round in 10 mins. Was meant to see him this weekend, he was meant to be down at my house. He usually comes around dinner. He said on Thursday that he'll be late because hes going to the pub to watch the footy. Then he said he can only have one pint so he can come down to me. He said he'll come down after the footy, then it changed to tomorrow as he wants to drink and get pissed with his mates. Should i be annoyed? I am pissed off that he changed his plans with me to see his mates. It totally ruined my weekend, and tomorrow cant see him because he'll be tired and hungover all day. Feel like he puts me last and football and mats first. He obviously says its not true, but thats how i feel. Anyone else feel like this with their partners? If i am seeing him at the weekend, and someone invites me out, I feel i shouldnt go because i have made plans with bf, and I say no i cant.

And its not the first time.

Answer 1

you're not wrong to be annoyed. sounds like he has different priorities in his life than you do at the moment. that doesn't mean you're not important to him just that he has other things he needs to do (like be one of the lads down the pub drinking lots). i think that you need to either accept this & make your own weekend plans when you want to or move on & find someone who's after the same things as you from a relationship.

xxx