reason is ive put on a little extra weight and its making me self concious people will talk. I really need to go to this party because mum persuading me... a little bit off moral support please..
2007-03-03 05:35:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
A smile on your face will work wonders for the rest of you.
Go and hold your head up, makes you look taller and thinner.
Remember everyone has something they would like to hide~Jill
2007-03-03 07:01:56 · answer #1 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi I know exactly how you feel, Ive had this problem before, I dont think anyone will comment on you and its just your way you think you look. Not like me when i go some where my hubby to bes mum alway tells me ive put on weight and it doesnt feel nice but i suppose its better than her saying it behind my back. If i was you just go and have a good time. If anyone says anything to you which im sure they wont then just tell them where to go and think of more important things toi talk about that your weight. They will be shocked but it will work and they will leave you alone. Trust me love there are people in the world ten times as big as you and they still go and enjoy themselve. If you keep thinking you are fat you will start to believe it and you will get worse and you wont want to go no where. So just go and have a good time.
2007-03-03 15:27:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do this. Tell yourself that the extra weight is none of anyone's business.
You sound as though you are willing to go the extra mile. This is a good trait. Try to talk to as many people as possible.
Ask "Have you read any good books this month?" or "Have you watched any good tv, (movie, show etc) lately?" Watch the people start talking and you do nothing but nod and say "Uh huh" a couple of times. Everyone will think you are a big hit.
HINT: Most people love to hear themselves talk and they will be thinking that you are a fascination conversationalist.
2007-03-03 13:42:36 · answer #3 · answered by thisbrit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and enjoy the best you can. If anyone says anything about your extra weight , that will be a good reason to not go to any more family functions. Do this for your Mom.
2007-03-03 13:42:11 · answer #4 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you 4 real????big is in girl and why should you care what people think of you?life,my dear is short to tink of that crap.
I was a size 10 when i met my husband,ive had 3 kids since and im 34(nearly) and gone to 12-14,sometimes 16,i feel ok in myself,but if i could lose my bit of stoach id streak through croke park!!!!!!!!!
Love youreself and xxxx the rest
2007-03-03 19:07:25 · answer #5 · answered by lees 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If anyone has the cheek to say you've put weight on just say well you're ugly but I can diet!! Hope you had a lovely night - bit late for advice.x
2007-03-03 18:26:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are beautiful because you are YOU its whats is inside that counts and those who have anything to say are not worth bothering with anyway... how often do they look at themselves in the mirror not at all is my guess - there will be always those people in life who have to find someone or thing to talk about because they have no friends wonder why?
Have a great time let your hair down, remember YOU are Beautiful!!
2007-03-03 13:42:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
go to the party and if ask have you put on weight just say yes and you have too that will stop them for questioning you
2007-03-03 13:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by Summer G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh bejaysus pet, dont worry about it. I've put on 3 stone since having me twins and if people dont like it I'll knock em out with me bingo wings.
You'll be fine, I bet no one even notices you've put weight on, and if they do, so what.
Be happy with yourself chick and dont worry about what anyone else thinks.
Haway, be gone with you and have a great night!!
2007-03-03 17:04:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be fab dont worry. if people are talking about you then they obviously havent got a life.Ignore them! Its easier than just saying it I realise. But make sure you talk yourself up, impress them with your plans for the future and make them jealous as hell of you, so if they are going to talk about you make sure they are full of envy!!!!!!!!
2007-03-03 13:42:50 · answer #10 · answered by loopylooloo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋