So there's this guy at my school and he is perfect. He looks good, smart, athletic, and so nice. He's perfect. I'm really good friends with him, and he lives down the strret. We always hang out together and he's like my best friend. I never realized what a good boyfriend he would make. We are always flirting and people always tell me to get with him. I really like him now and i don't know how to tell him i like him. I can't just go up to him and be like "You are fyne. Will you go out with me?". ahahaha' Yeaa buh i really need some advice on how to make it more obvious that i like him.
Thank-you for taking the time to answer my question. All answers are very much appreciated.
Please be helpful and not stupid!
2007-03-03 05:35:14 · 17 answers · asked by tishhh 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey!
Yeah that situation is so sticky and I've been through it as well.
1- Make your own rumors (tell people you fancy him, like your friends who will tell his friends or something like that)
2- When he asks you whether the rumors are true, blush really hard and go "ummm" and walk off. That will leave him baffled lol!
3- MAKE SLOW EYE CONTACT. This has been revealed to be an excellent tactic to make a person realize you are attracted to them, and also become gradually attracted to you. You have to look him in the eye for a long time when you talk and if someone else is in the conversation, let go off eye contact with him very slowly and unwillingly (as if you want to keep looking at him).
4- Find out from his friends if he likes you. (He may feel the same way! Anything is possible).
Good luck!
^_^
2007-03-03 06:12:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fear stops us from some of the best things we can have. Not knowing is the problem here and you want to know so you have to ask something simple to put him on the spot but not too much of a spot and you will find out one way or the other or a maybe! Ask this I'm going to wal-mart would you like to go along? This is a start and not asking is not starting and not knowing!
2007-03-03 13:43:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from a guy, I have to say that I hate it when girls don't make it obvious. Signals and signs are over-lookable, but telling him how you feel is strong, and to the point. I like it better when a girl tells me she likes me, because then I know for certain, and I won't second guess it if I see her glance at another guy. I find it's better in both the short and long run.
2007-03-03 13:40:18 · answer #3 · answered by Jordan S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried the "direct and honest" approach? Rather than playing games, ask to talk to him and let him know that you are attracted to him. While this seems unusual today, if he's so intelligent and all, he should truly appreciate you being upfront and honest, and dealing with this situation in a very adult-like manner. Try it. You don't have anything to lose.
2007-03-03 13:40:07 · answer #4 · answered by beer_4myhorses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are in High school be patient and tell him that when you will graduate at the prom. that's a romantic place. if you are in college just write him a letter that tell him your sentiment, after give this letter don't try to talk to him let him come to you if he takes that's bad give him a long or always stay his friend and talk him about a imaginary guy you like to see his reaction.
2007-03-03 13:43:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. u should keep hangin out with him. 2. u should talk about his crushes. 3. u should try to make it obvious that u like him and 4. u should just go up and say u like him and ask if he wants to go out even if u feel enbarased i mean the worse that can happen is hell say he just wants to be friends
2007-03-03 13:41:49 · answer #6 · answered by Richard G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like me and my best friend everyone tells me to get with him. But I don't like him in that way. But if I did I would tell him this: "We've been friends for along time right? I have to tell you something... I like you more than a friend." Good Luck girl.
2007-03-03 13:41:02 · answer #7 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is Perfect!so?You are PERFECT TO!!!!!!I am very open minded,but there is something that women today have to understand...we are the one who shine when we are in love and if it is not recognized it is OK.Maybe it is not the time we have to be patient.Men is there to have respect for us.Build RESPECT for yourself and that what you will get in return.Sometimes man need more time we have to RESPECT that.I am sure that everything is going to be good if you keep going to nourish your self
and build CONFIDENCE not EGO .Do it for yourself no for PEOPLE
2007-03-03 14:01:59 · answer #8 · answered by B B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compliment him when he does something or if his hair looks cute. Flirt with him alot. Tell one of your gossipy friends that you like him and it will eventually get around to him. When you talk to him, look him right in the eye. Oh, and smile at him alot...it also helps if you stare at him too. He'll get the picture. :-)
<3Heather
2007-03-03 13:39:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is how my friend did it to me (it was over like a monthe and a half):
we would just be hanging out, and she would just start playfighting, and eventually she started touching my bum, and other areas as a joke. also, she sarted by giving longer than usual hugs, than started with a kiss on the cheek, and than one day, she "accedently" kissed my lips. she said sorry than was like "did you like that?", i never answered, we left each other that day, and the next time we saw each other, she puprosely kissed my lips, and smiled, and i kissed her back.
anyway, good luck, you seem like a good person
2007-03-03 13:54:08 · answer #10 · answered by M D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋