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it is so:
- i fell inlove with a guy 2 years ago...
- we talked and decided just to be friends
- his best friend was in germany, so we started talking a lot about everything: music, films, our personal lives
- then his best friend comes back and he stops talking to me, doesn't even says hello
- we both have theater class together, so i see him ev'ry week...
3 months ago i asked him what' wrong
he said that
we were different people
his friends didn't like me (they never did)
my problems depressed him
he said we could be friends anyway (that was weird)
now he only says hello and goodbye and only when their friends are far away...
my friends told me he's dumb and i should forget him, but i do miss our conversations and i know that deep inside he is nice and it makes me really upset having to work with him almost without speaking to him... we have a theater play in the end of the school year...
it upsets me too that his friends make fun of him in his back...
what to do?

2007-03-03 05:25:49 · 5 answers · asked by darkness shadow 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

theater play is really a big problem for me...
but...i have large amounts of other problems including at school and this is causing me a depression...
it's a bit dumb, when you think about it, taking pills because of a guy, but i am too sensitive...

2007-03-03 05:37:18 · update #1

it's hard for me to go hard on him 'cause then he looks me w/ his green eyes and says i didn't want to hurt you
(but, if so, he meant what?)

2007-03-03 05:56:46 · update #2

5 answers

u know at u should do u should stand up to him tell him that its not his friends opinon if he can talk to u or not and u should tell him that his friends r talkin bout him behind his back so he can trust u and talk to u again u need to stand up for urself and mabey ur friend dosent really know how he feels unless shes close to him and if shes trully ur friend she should help u and talk to him if ur really not close to her like u dont hang out with her that much and u see her talking to other girls or u have a feeling that shes talking about u then mabey the only reason she told u hes dumb is b cuz she dosent want u to talk with him trust me i have the same problems

2007-03-03 05:41:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well he can't really care about you if he doesn't make an effort to talk to you. He would ignore what his friends say and talk to you if he really cared.

His friends can't be very good friends if they laugh at him for wanting to talk to you. But I think if he really wanted to talk to you he would ignore what his friends have said.

2007-03-03 05:39:49 · answer #2 · answered by crazinutta 1 · 0 0

Think of all the bad stuff he's done to you to get over him. That's the best thing to do...

2007-03-03 05:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by Eden 4 · 0 0

never see, or talk to him again

2007-03-03 05:28:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

he's not worth your time of day good riddance

2007-03-03 05:29:40 · answer #5 · answered by jeepluva67 1 · 0 0

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