We have had sex, but I know I shall never be able to have more with him because of his family, but when we are together it is the best feeling in the world for the both of us, we never argue or disagree, in fact we never have as friends in 4 years. What do I do?
2007-03-03 05:15:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Run away together,and live happy.
2007-03-03 05:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by Piztaker 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Firstly just want to say a few short words to so called 'fistenpum...'.
Listen who ever you are just get a life. Actually go and see a psychiatrist. I mean do you often hallucinate and talk about all Muslims in that way? you have no idea what Muslims are like or what their religion is about so just shut the hell up and go stick you head down a loo cuz your full of S***!
Well, now that’s all said let us continue!...
So you really like this guy. Good. And it’s been 4 years now. Very good. You uhum uhum dun it with him urrm not so good since he’s Muslim. But hey? Every1 makes a mistake so lets just 4get that for the time being.
next if you’re really both serious about each other then you really got to get it in mind that you'll marry only each other and no one else. And Islam allows guys to marry from religions like Christianity so it shouldn’t be too bad. As for his family, I can understand. They must be more culture orientated.
The thing is you got to give his family some time, and perhaps get your boyfriend or some of his mates to persuade his family. Or if not that talk to one of his sisters or brothers (if he has any). I mean they can always be of use, and I’m sure they won't be as strict as the parent. You just got to give it some time- that’s all.
You could run away- but then that could also make things worse. Because the family would defiantly not like it and they probably won’t talk to their son again. You both just got to convince them how serious you are and how you really respect his parent’s decision and will give them some time to decide. Trust me they'll just have to break through! Once they realise their son isn’t going to marry anyone else I’m sure they'll give in. and if they're a religious type of family then tell them about how Islam would allow this marriage and stuff....if you get me.
Anyways wish you all the best and hope everything works out fine
2007-03-04 12:59:06 · answer #2 · answered by N@FeE$a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A muslim guy is allowed to marry out of his religion, his parents just might not like it though. But we all have horrible mother in laws so just go for it! How many times have you felt like this about a man? How many times do you expect to in the future? What you are doing isn't wrong, it's romance!
2007-03-03 13:52:21 · answer #3 · answered by floppity 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why? Do you have to tell his family you had sex? As a Muslim he shouldn't have sex before marriage. He will need to ask Allah to forgive him. What would that feel like for you?
2007-03-03 13:50:21 · answer #4 · answered by Sternchen 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The very fact that you are questioning the relationship means that you should give it up. Find someone you are more compatible with and someone who doesn't mind being with you regardless of what his family may think.
2007-03-03 13:21:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
this is the reason why Islam prohibits for Muslims boys and girls.. or non Mehram..i.e. to one whome you can marry.. stay in veil... so that such circumstances would not arose among people whr adultery took place among boys and girls . or male or female and they cannot named their relationship due to some problems... of family and all..
anyway .. my answer is .. both of you should place this matter infront of your families... and let them decide the solution...
with wisdom and reasons.. take care May Allah bless you .. and guide you
2007-03-03 14:09:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He shouldn't have had sex according to islam but if you really want to marry him and he is serious also, islam does allow marriage with christians and jews. if he is not willing to do this out of fear of his family why did he even have sex.
2007-03-03 13:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by E.T.01 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if u like him thas all that matters.i like a muslim boy too and if we get there im not gonna let religion get in the way.
2007-03-05 18:34:03 · answer #8 · answered by it's just infactuation 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, he's a muslim. He hates you, your religion, way of life, food, drink, attitude, everything. His evil religion will always come first.
Muslims should be condemned to hell for eternity, have nothing to do with him.
2007-03-03 15:16:20 · answer #9 · answered by fistenpumpen 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell him that you want to contin ue with your relationship
2007-03-03 13:28:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋