I'm not able to move, travel or spread my wings coz these old morons would die out for all I know which one day they will definitely for sure (but before that I'm gonna be dead seeing my ambitions and dreams dying before my own eyes), something my conscience prevents me - I can't even think of being in a relationship coz these sods are two mouths to feed already.
Seriously if someone were to kill the both of them and take the blame, I wouldn't be sitting on Yahoo Answers but be the next Bill Gates or something.
2007-03-03 05:12:26 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Before someone says anything, my pathetic father never spent anything good on me. I did college on my own scholarships and managed to eke out a decent education from poor public schools - I never had any fancy gadgets or collectibles that my peers did always and was always the poor guy next door. Now, when I started earning well and wish to enjoy my own life, these morons grew old by the time and have become burden that they are
2007-03-03 05:16:28 · update #1
ok well I don't know your full situation but your going to have to go about things in a mature fashion. I have parents who have been hevily reliant on me, esp my mum since i was about 10, they've done the best they could but now when i am not well they don't suppport me and that makes me very mad also. You do need to get away for a while..look your parents should be able to care for themselves and if they can't you need to speak to the social services and get them to sort out care. Speak to your parents first, tell them that you need to go out and enjoy life and meet your potential...if they don't like that, leave since you don't seem to think your depend on them at all...but if they can't look after themselves call the social services prior to your departure, do the right thing!
2007-03-03 11:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by SH2007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you hold a grudge, you are hurting yourself as well as your parents. Even though things may not seem fair, try to find something positive about the situation. Just keep up with an attitude of gratitude as much as possible and little by little, you will find good things happening in your life.
Keep up the goals and know that you can sleep at night because you are doing the "right" thing. All things will pass. Good Luck to you.
2007-03-03 05:21:21 · answer #2 · answered by sanotary01 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Funny, because that's probably the same thought they had when they had you. I have three grown children and I can tell you that even though I wouldn't have traded the experience for anything, there's a lot you give up to be a parent. I don't know how old you are, but my guess is that they supported you a lot longer than you'll end up supporting them. It's just too bad they raised such an ungrateful, ego-centric slug. You must make them very proud.
P.S. you addendum just solidified my previous statement.
2007-03-03 05:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by Spud55 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
..I do feel sorry for you and assume it is because of the culture you were raised into. However, because you are in Britain, your parents will not be left to starve so do the brave thing and go ahead and live your dreams - the state will look after them and if you do manage to become Bill Gates then you can reward them for bringing you into this world from your wealth instead of struggling along now.
2007-03-03 05:19:13 · answer #4 · answered by freddy the newf 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm sorry it is occurring to you, i advise you telling your mothers and dads appropriate to the variety you experience, and that i advise confront them with each and every thing you comprehend and positioned them instant approximately it, and in the event that they are making your existence a residing h_ll pass out i particularly stay in a unload and be chuffed than a so so place and be depressing, are you able to progression in a dorm in college? or bypass to a preparation counselor and notice in the event that they are in a position which will assist you with your undertaking
2016-10-17 04:35:00 · answer #5 · answered by tonini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really do hate them, then just move out and stop supporting them.
If they can't fend for themselves, your problem is solved.
But you really don't hate them, you just resent your current situation. You could look into putting them into a managed care facility, so that you would have some more personal freedom.
2007-03-03 05:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by Vegan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are using your parents as an excuse for your own insecurities - why do you have to look after them? Are they disabled or inacapacitated? Anyway with a son like you wishing them dead, they would be better off in a home.
2007-03-03 05:16:43 · answer #7 · answered by Ally 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
try too be nice why dont you get them into a hobby (garding bingo) somthing like that so there not always stuck in the house and put the in a care home where they will be propley looked after when there gone you might regreat saying all this. and your not funny i think you ned counciling
2007-03-03 07:36:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wa**er! Get a life and don't blame others for your shortcomings! My life has come to a faltering stop before, but not because of my disabled mother who I care for, but because I was lazy and gave up! Grow up and stop being so pathetic!
2007-03-03 05:22:06 · answer #9 · answered by Lovely Witch 25 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have some serious resentment towards your parents. Maybe you should try speaking to them, saying that you feel responsible for them and while you want to give back to them that you feel it's holding you back. They've had their lives, its time for you to live your own and not worry so much about them.
2007-03-03 10:35:56 · answer #10 · answered by Jez 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋