Do you think im creepy?

Question

im a 20 year old college student living in the dorms of a huge university with no friends and all i do is play piano and draw, thats what im doing now and its friday night. never had a girlfriend, never kissed anyone. i sit in my room alone for about 10 hours a day not including sleep. I havent spoken a single word for the past 4 days and usually only speak about a sentaence a day (usually when answering questions in class) one positive... i got a 3.94 gpa. sometimes i feel like im kinda wierd/creepy ( dont care though) is that true or are there a lot of peolple like me?

Answer 1

I don't think you're a creep---and I am in no place to judge or answer that question seeing as how I don't know you...I'm sure that there are people that are quite similar to you, some people are simply more introverted. I say, do whatever you feel content doing. You know yourself better than anyone else, and know what is right for you and what makes you happy.

Congrats on doing great in school and having hobbies that you are passionate about...but do you ever feel like you are missing out on the world while you are spending so much time alone?

Keep in mind that at some point, whether through your career or if you ever want to pursue a relationship, you will need to interact with people on a daily basis. Although it may be uncomfortable for you, maybe you should try to to step out of that comfort zone and bit and interact, even if it is simply smiling at someone you pass by on the way to class....there are so many wonderful people out there. And who knows, maybe you might even stumble upon someone that shares your interests! Don't let the world pass you by.

Answer 2

I knew a guy like you. It can be kinda off-setting if you're trying to get a girl. People will generally think you're not interested. Wouldn't call you creepy, just try to get out more, talk more... There are plenty of people who would like you exactly the way you are, the only problem is if you do nothing social at all, you're not likely to meet any of them. Chances are, they are all sitting at home for 10 hours a day, playing piano and drawing, wondering if they are weird/creepy for not doing anything else on a friday night...

Answer 3

Are you antisocial? Homophobic? Just plain extremely laid back? That's cool you play piano and draw, and that's an awesome grade average. I wouldn't say you're creepy or wierd though. And there are a lot of people like you. You sound a lot like me only a lot more... extreme. I play piano, draw, spend a lot of time in my room, have a 3.61 gpa, I don't speak much, and I've never kissed anyone, but I do have friends and I have a girlfriend.

Answer 4

If you are good at drawing and piano, I suggest in your spare time perform on stage and mix with other musicians and the audience after performing. If you have not noticed yet, women love musicians. Hell, most people PAY to see a concert on friday night. What a feeling it is to BE the concert. If you like to draw, do something that gets you involved with people. I once met an artist who did portraits in his spare time at the mall for low costs not because he wanted the money but it gave him a chance to get out and meet people. Draw a webcomic and start your own forum and get to know your fans. This way you do not have to leave home to meet poeople and express your self on the net and not deal with the akwardness of talking face to face and meet them eventaully when you feel comfortable doing so. Do something. Don't have the money or time to do so? Start out at myspace, keenspace or keenspot and see what they say.

Answer 5

looking back on it high school was such a short period in my life and college zipped by faster. it has been years and i just wished i had been as disciplined and productive as you. i admire you and am a bit jealous. i don't know how to tell you that urges to kiss etc. are so very unimportant in the long run. keep up the excellent work and have more faith in yourself. you are doing great. if you get too lonely do something social that doesn't involve risky sex or booze and drugs. keep it up and have a great life. this loneliness that pops up, if it gets too bad concentrate in joining a pickup basketball game or going to church or anything you enjoy where others are around but not those who are a danger of being a bad influence. that is the danger. it is a stealth trap. lonely peoople get pulled into something that drags them down. keep doing it your way and don't let go.

Answer 6

You're not creep it sounds like you just like to be by yourself. Do you like drawing and playing the piano? There are alot of people out there who does exactly what you do. Like me for example I don't even go outside my dorm either, when I do it is to get some fresh air, to go to the store, or to go to class. I don't even like being around a big crowd of people and my favorite things to do is write poetry, stories, sketch and draw sometimes. But you know what you can do to better yourself let your hobbies like drawing go outside sometimes and draw a couple of things like trees and people sitting under the trees. It's nothing weird about hanging by yourself or barely talking to people.

Answer 7

No ure not creepy, u just need to do more fun stuff. Me, ive hardly kissed anyone, i stay home everyday ppl think im overseas or somthin cuz i dont go out so people hardly know me, so now im like u know what, lifes too short, so im startin to go out there and do fun stuff

Answer 8

Well, I think it is good that you have a good gpa, and maybe that is all that you want to focas on.And if so, then it dont matter what others think of you!! maybe you could find just one true friend to share your memories and drawings with you! Keep your grades up, and keep goind!! Get one good friend to help motivate you. Hope things are ok! :]

Answer 9

There are more people going thru this and many more who have already been where you're at . It's nothing weird it's just where you're at at this time in your life. The fact that you are noticing it suggest to me that you are ready to make a change. Best to pray and see why GOD is bringing this to your attention at this time and where HE is leading you and what HE is wanting to teach you. And have a happy transition.

Answer 10

there are probubly more peopul likke you than you thinkk. Do you wantt to get to know peopul? Or are you fine?

it doesnt makke you creepey, but peopul might think that about you if you donut make an effort to get to know otherr people.

sunds like you have soshul anxiety disorder. it is verie commone.

it might help to ask about it because even if you are happie now, you still will half to interacte with peopul in your job and careere and maybe you want to sumeday get laid and meete sumeone.