WHY does my boyfriend make me feel not as important, when it comes to my feelings?

Question

he can come off so abrasive, and harsh, and very dismissive at times? but I know we love each other, and he isn't good at sharing feelings, could that be why? does it make him uncomfortable?

Answer 1

Women tend to have better verbal skills than men. I think the reason he may turn around and be harsh to you is because he can't get his words together. It's a real struggle when it comes to talking and expressing emotions and it gets to the point where they feel boxed in because somebody else is talking away expressing their emotions so easily. It gets stressful on them and they tend to act a little insensitive when they don't mean to. I hope you can both figure out a way to work things out. Good luck =]

Answer 2

Men are very bad at holding feelings in cause its just him and when you keep talkin about it, it makes him uncomfortable.

Answer 3

i guess so. i think its bad for him to hold in his feeling like that. but its up to you to get to know him and understand him better, try to read him. probably he asks like that b/c he dont know how to come to you with his feelin let him know that he can trust you and come to you if things not goin good. when he asks like that try not to be so mad, try seatin down with him and ask him whats brother him. if you guys really love each other you guys could work out this problem.

Answer 4

becuse he maynot half expeerience sharing his feelelings, but indiffrunce could also show he dont care as mutch about you as you thinkk.

If you thinkk he is goode to you at other times, you culd learn him to be more opun to you.

Answer 5

if u knew why had u asked.. i understand how u feel.. iam feeling the same way too.. it means that ur bf onli self concern more.. its jus his attitude.. maybe he feel awkward when speaking of feelings..