in the middle of a conversation, this co-worker , who is engaged, got close to my face, asked if was wearing lipstick, then he said something about me biting off his ''thing" he does tend to joke like that..(i have thick lips) what could he have ment?
2007-03-03 04:31:12 · 12 answers · asked by amanda 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
dont you get it lady... he wants something for his THING
2007-03-03 04:39:38 · answer #1 · answered by Kabir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Bluestar,
I really think you need to stop fretting over him. This man is engaged, therefore is very hands off.
He also sounds like not the ideal type of boyfriend, as he is being completely obnoxious in the way he is.
If he were to find out that you've been fixated on what he does by constantly posting questions for advice, it would only be motivation for him to continue the behaviour, maybe even plant people who would put in a "good word" on his behalf.
You need to cut ties with him wherever possible and you possible may need to work where he doesn't. Find a job somewhere else if possible, and if not, work your way in a situation where you don't even have to be there anymore. This is not healthy and if you are in the market for a boyfriend, you should look elsewhere. You seem like a nice enough girl, and if I wasn't married, I'd ask for your number.
Anyway, let me know how everything goes and I will be praying that you find a solution for this situation.
Regards
Paul
2007-03-03 05:29:27 · answer #2 · answered by paulblackman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes asking if you can do oral for him. Tell your problem to another woman, ask around if he harassed them too. Make sure it wouldnt be your word against his, but everyone's against his. Cads like this are professional liars thats why he whispered it to you.
2007-03-03 05:23:27 · answer #3 · answered by Liv G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who CARES what he meant, he is obviously a rude, icky, stupid a**h*le and you should report his behavior to your supervisor if it ever happens again. Guys like that should be pecked to death by rabid ducks!
2007-03-03 04:45:26 · answer #4 · answered by blytle68 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he does it again report him to a supervisor. His behaviour is not only rude, it's illegal. It's called sexual harassment.
2007-03-03 15:44:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what he meant. He was disgusting and completely innapropriate. There is a term for it: sexual harassment.
2007-03-03 07:45:47 · answer #6 · answered by Charles 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he wants to make his thingy pretty by putting on the same lipsticks as u were wearing.
he's probably gay?
2007-03-03 04:41:45 · answer #7 · answered by doty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wanted to know whether youll sleep with him
2007-03-03 04:35:50 · answer #8 · answered by mamakumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As for me I find it rude
2007-03-03 04:33:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your workplace have policies for sexual harrassment?
2007-03-03 12:27:05 · answer #10 · answered by Caroline N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what did you say when he did this?
this is called sexual harassment...and, you need to file a complaint against him..
2007-03-03 11:30:21 · answer #11 · answered by Winters child 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋