You're making out with your bf and he puts his hand down your pants, what does that mean?

Question

His hand was above my underwear, so not touching my bare butt. He did this a couple times, but I didn't say anytihng b/c I kinda liked it. But then he put his hand a little further and I stopped making out and gave him the "watch where those hands go" look. He didn't touch my butt after that. We're only teenagers, and he's respected me since the first date. So what does it mean? Does he want something? Please, guys answer, but girls can answer too.

Answer 1

Look of course your boyfriend wants sex. It's normal! if your boyfriend says he doesn't want sex that's a load of crap. There are good guys on the outside and bad boys on the inside, there's jsut a time and place for each one. all of us deep down inside want to have sex :) Don't look at him like a scumbag just cous he likes to touch you intimately. If he stopped, Good I respect that, he's just curious about how what to do and when you tell him no, he knows and listens, just like a small puppy lol.

In my opinion don't be so restrictive on yourself but don't do anything that will make you feel like a slut either. Have fun but let him feel comfortable around you. Just because a guy holds onto your butt when you two makeout doesn't mean he wants to have sex right there, it's jsut a perfect place to hold a girl and bring her closer to you.

Have fun! but don't do anything that you will think is regrettable :)
btw. ask him what he wants to do, let him open up with his sexual desires, you'll be surprised what us guys will think of. Just embrace your love but don't go too far. Get what I'm saying?


Well I hope I helped
-StevenAlex

Answer 2

look, you adult men are 13. i think of the undeniable fact that your boyfriend needs to have unprotected intercourse and have a splash one at such an age is ludicrous. Its an fairly youthful age to go with to be with somebody constantly with. while i replaced into your age i knew alot of persons who have been in relationships. Out of all those couples, none have been nevertheless mutually by skill of the time i replaced into 18. My suggestion is to tell your boyfriend no. If he gets indignant or leaves you, then he does not rather love you in any respect. If he's familiar with and respects your determination, then perhaps he rather does love you. 13 is a delicate age, be careful what you think, and be much greater careful approximately what you do.

Answer 3

. love making is a growth process and he is Trying to grow closer to intimacy. Hand down the back of Clothing is just to increase the sexual feelings between you. As a prelude to Touching your pubic area and trying to cause you an orgasm
.. If you don't want to proceed to the next step then place your hand on his and put it where you would LIKE to have it.... Same game as Romeo and Julliette played in 1200 making out is fun and you know it will eventually lead to the BIG "O" and maybe even to The big NO-NO.

Answer 4

How long have you guys been together?

I think he wants to get "in your pants" as in have sex with you..or at least go further than making out

Just remember if you don't want to do it you don't have to..and it's good that he did back off when you said no the first time.

Rememeber the consequences of having sex..and always use some form of birth control.

Answer 5

Maybe he was looking for his car keys! You girls always think the worst!

Answer 6

it means he wants to play soccer with your round butt.

Answer 7

he's trying to pressure you
not cool
your right in what you did
if not 4 giving him a slap as well
babes

Answer 8

well it propley means he's tring to tell you something..... he likes you a whole lot and wants to do something more than make out

Answer 9

He was looking for his keys...btw, how big is your butt anyway?

Answer 10

he was just checking to see if you had underwear on..and if you didn't he would probably lecture you about hygiene!! Couldn't be anything else,could it!!