Hey people, have a kinda complex problem here yeah... me and this guy friend of mine were very close to each toher.... he was always there for me.... i knew he like me all along.... But he doen't want to admit... recently i found out that he wants to give up without even trying... so what should i do ?To make matters worse, i guess i kinda fall in love with him .....but now our relationship is strained due to some misunderstanding...
2007-03-03 04:28:48 · 12 answers · asked by Angelic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him how you feel...tell him maybe u should give it a shot..its not easy to find someone you love and a close friend too nowadays...dont lose him without even trying, regret something u did better then spending the rest of ur life wondering what if?? life is too short and love only knock a few times on ur door, fight for what u have girl,what the worse thing that can happen?.......good luck
2007-03-04 05:50:47 · answer #1 · answered by scorpion_girl_rocks2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know, or how sure are you that he likes you (or love you??) did he tell you? If not then you are only assuming, or probably you are thinking it to be because you already loved him.
As i see it, the latter might have happened to both of you. He has found out that you already loved him differently, and he is only willing to be your friend and not a lover. Recently too that he discovered that he is moving a bit away from you to give the space and distance it needed to show you the difference.
Men (most oftenly) does not like to be chased - kinda you already love them while they are not yet ready to love you. They tend to scare away from this and that when they do that, females tend to be more clingy to get their attention to that effect, and this will scare them away even more!
The truth is, BE HONEST AT ALL COSTS!!!!
Tell him what you really want, be honest and tell him what you feel, and that accept and be ready for whatever he says or his decision would be after this.
If he stays with you and try to work things out, then be happy for it. But if he glides away, then be ready for this and accept it openly.
The big thiung is that you have made your point and said your innermost feelings that sooner or later you won't be feeling sorry for not saying what you should have said.
Good Luck!
2007-03-03 04:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by lacey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
misunderstands, HA!! i live all around them hun, and if a guy wont believe you, and you aint lien, then there is no reason to be with him. Now if your like i am, and this guy you love, dont love you back, yet you know he really does, and alot of times he will asume the lies, then ther is no reason to be with him. But i hope things will work out! :]
2007-03-03 04:34:58 · answer #3 · answered by Nichole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
darn you two...if the feeling's mutual, why make it complicated? talk and listen to each other.
your story has a familiar ring, oh yeah, that happened to me in college. the guy was oh-so-gorgeous and nice, he confessed to my friend circle that he loved me but was taking it slow since i'm younger than him. he graduated, i graduated, we never got hooked but we communicate sporadically. after 2 years, he kept in touch and wanted to pursue me. he's my biggest infatuation of the century but i didn't give it a try because some other guy has been pursuing me too. in less than a year, he married to some woman double his age who owns a tourism business. we accidentally met and he just gawked at me, and all i had to do was wave and smile at him. now do you want that to happen to you? spare yourself from preventable "what ifs", girl!
good luck!
2007-03-03 04:41:56 · answer #4 · answered by Mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try sitting down, and talking to him. It might clear the air between you both, and it can't hurt. At least you can find out his true feelings toward you, and move on.
2007-03-03 04:34:08 · answer #5 · answered by lariat_sonata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him let him know and if he is stressed try not to talk about other guys around him and he might be happier and not so easy to give up
2007-03-03 04:32:35 · answer #6 · answered by Oh Snap! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen. Be direct, honest, and put all your cards on the table. Just tell him everything. I can't tell you the amount of relationships that would be saved if women were just direct.
2007-03-03 04:32:21 · answer #7 · answered by th_779 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you love him before it's too late. let him know. let him in your heart if you really love him. telling him how you feel will sort things out. saying just three words isnt so hard when you know that person loves you too. just do it (:
2007-03-04 06:11:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is; Do you like him more as a friend or enough to be your boyfriend?
2007-03-03 04:36:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there anyway you could talk to him about it.It sounds to me the only thing lacking her is communication.
2007-03-03 04:34:49 · answer #10 · answered by airam_k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋