well its like this i used to be real into going out every night bar club what ever looking for girls i guess i got a rep for it well now that im seeing this girl i dont go out any more just work then spend time with her id ont do the club or bar thing unless she wants to come but the problem is people still talk about me her x will call her and tell her that i slept with some one or did something but the thing is its not true for once ive not lied to her and want to i learned it catches up to you i like the fact that i tell her its not true and im not lieing but i think there is a small spot in her head that thinks im lieing cause of the way i was. she is not my gf she says i can do what i want but i know she cares ive been nothing but good to her and she thinks its to good to be true but its not sorry there is a few questions in this just confused any help im just lost with what to do she has been my friend for 5 yrs and i dont wanna let this go its to good we are better together
2007-03-03 03:48:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All you can do is keep being honest. You are proving yourself in my opinion by not going out to the clubs without her. And it sounds like most of your free time is with her and if she really thinks about it, when would you have the time to sleep with these people? Sounds like her ex has issues with her seeing someone else and is trying to start something between you two. Hopefully, in time, she will see that you are not lying about it and realize it's not too good to be true. People can change when they meet a person they really care about. Just let her know that you care about her too much to do that to her and she is the one who has changed you for the better. Change the fact that she isn't your g/f. Let her know you only want to see her and make it exclusive. That might let her know how you feel as well. Prove it to her with your actions and eventually she will see you for the person you are instead of listening to the little voice telling her otherwise.
2007-03-03 04:03:11 · answer #1 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just keep sticking with her and treat her with all the kindness in the world..... prove to her that ur not doing anything wrong.... show her that you do like her alot.... send her flowers or something to compliment her once and a while.... tell her... of all the girls in the world, her hand is the only hand you ever wanna hold.........
no matter what anyone else says, dont give up and prove them right... their trying to break u and make her see that ur a really bad guy... if u mess up once in her eyes... she will never be able to see u as a boyfriend and anything more?
2007-03-03 12:03:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like theres a trust issue here and some major head game going on why would u want to go on this emotional roller coaster ride? Is it worth it to be tied in knots?
2007-03-11 10:30:09 · answer #3 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you did all of those things before you started talking to her..that you really care for her and that you have changed in so many ways..that you really want to be with her and will do anything to show her that you have changed and that you would do nothing to hurt her..
Maybe she will understand..best of luck
Regina
2007-03-03 11:55:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are stupid. They need to realize that people have changed. My hubby was a huge man-whore before we met, but not anymore. It has taken some time, but people dont accuse him of that anymore. He had to prove himself to a lot of people.
2007-03-03 11:53:22 · answer #5 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change your phone number.
2007-03-11 11:39:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
prove it in actions.........................
2007-03-03 11:52:43 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋