I was with my girlfriend for 4 years. I dumped her things was going bad in our relationship. 3 weeks ago, I saw her and she got really emotional. I think she saw me also. I didn't say anything to her because I thought it would be awkward. I was wondering why did she got emotional. Yesterday, I saw ex my also, I was with my friends. When my ex saw me, she was about to cry. I felt so bad seeing her like that. I went over to her and hugged her and kissed her. After that, we started talking. I am still in love with her. my ex and I are not seeing anyone currently. I'm not sure if I should ask her to be my girlfriend again. When we were hugging, it was really comfortable to me. I'm just afriad that she might be fake that so she can break my heart. What do you think I should do?
2007-03-03 03:30:17 · 8 answers · asked by Salsa Dancer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe talk to her & see how she feels , talk about why you guys broke up & see if you can change or what you 2 could do to make your relationship better. 4 ears is a long time , I am sure you love her . she prob loves you & misses you too . Maybe get together for a drink just to see how things go take it from there Slowly . If you just wind up sleeeping together more then likely it wont work so remember take it slow :)
2007-03-03 03:36:07 · answer #1 · answered by mommaknowsbest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She got all emotional because she loves you and it breaks her heart to see you because she knows you two are not together. 4 years is a long time to be with someone, is the relationship really that bad that you had to break it and waste them 4 yrs? Talk to her, resolve whatever problems u two may have had because its plain to see shes in love with you.
2007-03-03 11:36:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out for coffee one day so you guys can talk. Let her know that you have missed her and if she likes to that you would like to start dating again. See what she says. She might be interested. If not, then at least you tried and can move on. At least you won't be thinking about the "what if's" if you never say anything to her.
It is worth a shot. Good luck.
2007-03-03 11:35:41 · answer #3 · answered by moo shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gota figure out if it was just comfortable or you really want to be with her. if you really care about her, then you should be with her, you shouldnt be worried about getting your heart broken because that's what love is all about: taking chances.
If when you think about her, you say to yourself that you can't be without her, then youve answered your own question. but if you can't, it might just be comfortable since you've been with her so long.
2007-03-03 11:36:51 · answer #4 · answered by suggargurl302 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were w/ her long enough to know if she was fake ... Do you really believe she could fake herself 4 that long? Wake up Dude ... you r afraid of commitment. Love lost its your fault!!
2007-03-03 11:44:34 · answer #5 · answered by htrime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry her by no late
2007-03-03 11:34:23 · answer #6 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok to be a skeptic.... but give it another go!
2007-03-03 11:36:41 · answer #7 · answered by SGPearlGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go 4 it man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-03 11:41:01 · answer #8 · answered by Hottie_101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋