I like this girl Brandy Hernando, alot. My best friend is going out with her, but it isn't his dream girl, he likes another one more, why didi he accepted to go out with her knowing I like her ;I don't know. What should I do? She gives me these looks like she likes me, when I pass by her she gets really nervous. The worst part about this is is that she thinks we're brothers, so the secrecy in her relationship is virtually gone for her. (We aren't brothers, but we are cousins). Its a hard situation. I will accept all answers, if you want to learn anyomore so you can help me just ask. Thanks alot.
2007-03-03 02:52:19 · 11 answers · asked by GREGORIO G C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be patient you get your shot if you stand firm and be supportive.
2007-03-03 03:02:50 · answer #1 · answered by I ♥ txmuzk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody is worth a real friendship the girl will go for you now and do the same to you when another guy comes along and then the friendship is gone,so i would find another girl that has respect for her boyfriend and a boyfriend that will respect her,sounds like you two want to do someone wrong.
2007-03-03 10:58:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So your friend does not know that you like this girl. Well don't tell him yet but u can try and hook him up with the other girl that he likes more. Just say that u heard she likes him and if and when he breaks up with Brandy u can make your move.
2007-03-03 10:56:05 · answer #3 · answered by hottie911 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend likes someone more he is just using this girl - a conquest.
Take your heart in your mouth. Confront him. Tell him that you fancy this girl, but if he is serious then, in the interests of friendship you will back off. But if he is just playing with her, then you intend to make a play for her.
If he is your best friend, he will appreciate your honesty.
And may the best man win!
2007-03-03 11:08:08 · answer #4 · answered by Bunts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, same thing with me and my best friend only...i have the girl, i dont neceseraly like another one, and we arent cuzins but the best thing u can do is talk with him and discuss that he should go for the other girl because u like the one he is going out with, if that dosnt work, the only thing u can pretty much do is find a way to make her hate him and then u go on to her.
Hope it helps :)
2007-03-03 10:57:24 · answer #5 · answered by porscheboy16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eventhough I'm a playa, I dont take my best friend's meat. It's a no go. It shows that you dont have a network of girl friends and are ready to do your best friend wrong.
Keep your best friend as he may be your best friend for life and get to know some other nice girls to widen your fishnet.
There are so many other girls so why do you have to like just one girl? You are no married yet.
Good Luck!!!
2007-03-03 11:28:02 · answer #6 · answered by Playa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you should tell your cousin and then you should talk to the girl and see if she really like you
2007-03-03 10:56:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might want to talk to your cousin and be honest with him. and then you can talk to her and tell her that you are not brothers. but I would find someone that is free to go out with you, there are alot of nice girls out there. be patient you will find the right one.
2007-03-03 10:56:21 · answer #8 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the nerve and tell her point blank! See what she says. Or, you can do nothing and wonder, good luck!
2007-03-03 10:55:38 · answer #9 · answered by sandra b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's your cousin? You shouldn't want to date your cousin. It's just... not right.
2007-03-03 11:05:45 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋