A lot of guys in school have been asking me out and I keep shooting them down. I dated this guy for 4 years and I still miss him & I will probably always love him. Should I try to get over him by dating someone else? I'm just scared that if I start a relationship with someone new I will have to break up with them because I will always be thinking about my ex and then I will break their heart which I hate doing. I'm not attracted to the guys that ask me out and some of them are guys that EVERYBODY wants. Also, I don't know how to tell if a guy really likes me for me or if he just wants some BUTT, cuz that's usually what guys like me for. Im scared to let my guard down because I don't want to find out that he just wanted some BUTT. Hopefully you can help me and understand where Im coming from. I'm 17 by the way.
2007-03-03 02:51:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whatever you do, don't date guys just to date them. you said you're not attracted to any guys that have asked you out.. so don't say yes! find a guy that looks decent, then become friends with him to see if he has good qualities. if he's a good guy, then start letting him know you want to be more than friends and see how that ends up. good luck and i hope i helped.
2007-03-03 02:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by Konrad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Princess cheeks, ur right when u say ur not interested to play with some other guys while ur currently in love with ur ex, by doing so, u will only hurt them and make ur self a playgirl and its bad for ur image,continue to be true to ur self and feelings for that guy u like and try not to avoid him,if possible,be friends with him,only then, u will be closer to him and might be the only way for him to notice you, but if you want to know whether the guy really likes you, then dont show him any signs that will show you as an "easy girl" if he started to show you things that indicates he likes you, or if he started courting you, then dont answer him yet, test him for a months if possible for a year, only then you will know if he is true and sincere for what he feels for you, if he can wait then its just a sign that he can sacrifice anything for you!
Gud luck girl, remember, a player will never let his victims notice what his bad motives are,so most often,he will try to show you his good side and not the real side of him.
2007-03-03 11:17:43 · answer #2 · answered by Deep Bone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could ask the guy that you love and see how he fells and if you dont relly know how to tell that a guy just whats butt then see who he has dated and ask your friends to. If you relly still love this guy then just tell him and how you feel. And he might be jeleies if you go out with some one else and see how you like it. I hope that this will help. :)
2007-03-03 10:58:39 · answer #3 · answered by Bass Head Central! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just trust in love and your selection of guy. let the destiny to decide what is right and wrong, if you don't show your trust you can never get anything of a relationship, but is you show it could be fifty fifty preposition. so don't try to play with relations, just stick with your boyfriend and wait for destiny.
2007-03-03 10:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by ag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over your ex start dating someone that u no doesnt want some butt..
2007-03-03 10:56:44 · answer #5 · answered by littlek8778 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes unfortunately, alot of guys in this age group are looking for one thing. sorry to say, but if you feel that they are truly genuine, then please, stop thinking about your past relationship, move on please. This is why they call the past the past, and the future is what you make it. So go on, enjoy your life, your to young to not be enjoying life. Take care.
2007-03-03 10:57:15 · answer #6 · answered by Cindybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe you don't have to go out with them right away... but have like a date or something, if you like them once you get to know them, then maybe you can go out with one of them. but if your really not interested, and you don't really feel any attraction, don't go out with them, and don't say yes.
2007-03-03 11:31:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to move on......but dont go for someone u dont like, if u find someone u like go for him and move on...
2007-03-03 10:57:56 · answer #8 · answered by cbr600rr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not ready, you're not ready!
2007-03-03 11:08:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋