I have been seeing this guy for a coupke weeks now, our fourth date was a week ago. We seemed to hit it off. And a close mutual friend to the both of us reassured me that he is interested. But he always leaves the planning to me. It's like the roles are reveresed. Is this a way to say he's not interested. He'll call, or after the date say he wants to see me again, soon, but if he does call he has no plan and wants me to figure out what we can do. On the last date, he finally took some initative adn i thought maybe this will go somewhere, but now it's been a week and he ahsn't called. He did leave a posting on my facebook wall. Should I call him, or wait? I just don't want to wait too long and loose that intial connection that makes you want to see more of the other person. I've never been in a situation like this before, and I don't think I explained it well. I can use any advice.
2007-03-03 02:25:42 · 7 answers · asked by naturegg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are interested, give him a little time and then contact him again. he may be afraid of getting close.
on the other hand, don't obsess over him, i promise that will scare a guy away. he will come arround if he thinks that it is a happy time spent with you.
use your time without him to meet some other people and do what you want.
stay out of bed with him, because a lot of guys stop comming arround when they conquer the quarry.
God bless you.
2007-03-03 02:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by WhoKnows?1995 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mention that he's called you before. You don't mention that you've called him. If you continually wait for him to call you, maybe he's waiting to see if you'll take some initiative in that area. If you've already called him and it's been a week since you've heard anything, well, the ball is in his court so he may not be that into you.
2007-03-03 10:35:55 · answer #2 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's lazy. Bascially, this sets the tone for your relationship---you'll always be the one calling HIM, making dates, etc. He'll go along willingly, but he's what we call the "Lazy Dater". This laziness also spills over into his work, relationships with his family, remembering important dates, etc. You can't change him at this point.
I wouldn't call him. I'd let him start to think "hey..Munya hasnt called me...what's up" eventually he'll get it.
or not, and in that case, dump the chump.
Does he "take the iniative" during...you know....ahem....doing...stuff? wink wink...If not, then FOR SURE dump him!
2007-03-03 10:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u are always the one calling maybe he is sitting back and let you chase him , let him chase you for a change don't call , and if he does call and wants to go out ,just say i have plans that day "rain check ?
2007-03-03 10:35:18 · answer #4 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how long its been you should wait a few days then call him if he doesnt call and see whats wrong
2007-03-03 10:28:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is playing hard to get or he is nervous or shy.. but try urself one more time.. if he keeps on doing that..stop calling him . if he miss u he will start initializing...
2007-03-03 10:30:14 · answer #6 · answered by ee2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no hes over u find omeone new duh ur so pathetic u shud know if they dont make the next date on the last date u went on he doesnt want another 1 get over it
2007-03-03 10:29:50 · answer #7 · answered by roar!!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋