You are going to spend a ton of time and money to be married right? And for what? So you can be called an x one day? You are marrying yr future x spouse! The kids will come he will abandon. His best friend hits on you, you will sleep with him. It goes from bad to worse! But then again,I guess your entitled to your little fantasys.lIVE AND LEARN!!!
2007-03-03 02:20:01 · 27 answers · asked by sandra b 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
AND YOU PEOPLE WHO SAY THE YOU MUST BE BITTER BS WILL NOT BE CHOSEN! I KNOW THE FACTS AND YOU WILL TO ONE DAY!
2007-03-03 03:14:54 · update #1
The truth shall set you free.
2007-03-03 02:23:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow. Sometimes people actually make marriage work. I know it seems crazy, but it's true. Some people even love the person they're marrying and want to spend the rest of their lives together. And BTW some people have self control and don't whore around by sleeping with their husband's bf--even if they do get hit on. That's just sleezy. You shouldn't be married if you're going to cheat. Have some self respect and don't knock others because they actually care about their spouse.
2007-03-03 13:10:17 · answer #2 · answered by Renee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I think all the money we spent was worth it. I love my husband dearly and our two children and he loves them just as much as I do and I hope that he loves me as much as I love him. I am pretty sure he does,though.
I can honestly say that things have only goten better in our case, each day, week and year is better than the last and I really enjoy sharing my life with him. Not just because I am a Mrs now, but because he fills my life and as Jerry Maguire as this sounds, he really does complete me.
Marriage isnt for everyone though and if your feelings are that strong against it, maybe you are one of those people. Theres nothing wrong with not marrying, you can definitely live a happy and full life without it. But I would hope that even though marriage at this time isnt for you, that you wouldnt begrudge others the happyness they find through marriage.
2007-03-03 12:09:01 · answer #3 · answered by kateqd30 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So what are you exactly looking for? Forgiveness for a mistake you made? You are forgiven. Everyone makes mistakes, Its just what you learn from them that makes the difference. All I can say if he "Abandoned you emotionally" spending more time with his friends than with you and the kids, who is he really hurting? Himself, But it also sounds like your holding what he did to you, and what you think he caused you to do, ending your relationship against everyone else. Move on stay, away from the Drama. and get right with your self. So maybe you van open yourself up to loving and being loved by someone else
2007-03-03 10:37:36 · answer #4 · answered by George G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow. not all marriages end you know. some people have wonderful marriages, and I have witnessed many of them. some people are more fortunate than others. you never know when you will find the good guy, the right one, but as long as you remain this upset and bitter, you may be chasing a good one away.
2007-03-03 11:48:53 · answer #5 · answered by Dawnita 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is someone a little upset that maybe nobody wants to marry them? not every husband is like that my dear. just because you cant find a decent guy doesnt mean nobody can. and with an attitude like that...you never will find a good guy. and my question is...why are you wasting your time worrying about what other people do with their lives? is your that pathetic and lonely that you need to concern yourself with what other do? I pity you...grow up.
Chosen for what you moron? best answer? I wouldnt want to be chosed for best answer by someone are ignorant as you. you dont know any facts. in fact your just a sorry little girl who needs to grow up and get a life. I hate people like you who thinks they know everything when in fact you make yourself look stupid.
2007-03-03 10:25:43 · answer #6 · answered by Jenn ♥Cadence Jade's mum♥ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My parents .... married 30 years ... HAPPY
My grandparents (both sets) have both had their 50th ... HAPPY
And everyone I know who has been divorced found love elsewhere and is HAPPY now and they still see their kids ... no abandonment.
Looks like you picked the wrong one. Get over it, move on, find someone great and don't shove you bitterness down our throats just because we still believe that there is happiness out there.
2007-03-03 20:05:40 · answer #7 · answered by jenifajen 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Happily married 24 years w/2 great kids - sux 2 B U huh?
2007-03-03 10:31:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
What a negative outlook you have but that's your opinion. Not all marriages turn out that way, but just make sure you never marry & I hope you don't wind up a bitter, lonely person.
2007-03-03 10:36:52 · answer #9 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, we're never having kids, so 'kids will come and he will abandon' won't happen. His best friend is not at all sexually appealing to me, so I wouldn't go there. I've seen succesfull marriages, so I know it's possible. It's just not ALWAYS happy.
2007-03-03 10:33:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a two way street.It's give and take.If the guy or girl is not worthy of trust don't marry him or her.Knowing their character and family background helps.
What kind of morals does he or she have.Bottom line it sounds like you are bitter and have been hurt.You are not ready for a commitment anyway.
2007-03-03 10:29:37 · answer #11 · answered by sharen d 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋