ok...im 13 and never had a boyfriend. yeahh and i hate it...all of my friends have had like a million boyfreiends but not me....why dont guys like me? well i was kindof a geek in 6th grade... but im in 8th now and im like a total prep. i mean im 130 lbs. 5'3 ft. i have long brown hair with highlights and i wear mostly hollister. i hang around kind of popular girls and im a iceskater. why dont guys like me? how can i get guys to like me? please dont anser this is ur gonna say "ur too young" or "theres no rush". thanks<3
(mostly teen guys plez anser)
2007-03-03 02:08:26 · 13 answers · asked by Italia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First thing I would do is just be my self. People will respect you more if you quit trying to be or do things to at tracked the guys. Every thing happens in it's own time, so relax and enjoy the time with out all the drama. Remember this you are in control of your own destiny you and you alone.
2007-03-03 02:18:08 · answer #1 · answered by russell c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should just find a guy you like or think would be cool to go out with and just start talking and getting to know him eventually start flirting and then when he flirts back play hard to get by and then go back and tell him u and ur bf broke-up and say u broke-up wit him and if he asks y say u caught him cheating on u and he wont think u r some freak who breaks up wit everyone then go back to the flirting stage and then go one day and dont go up 2 talk 2 him see if he talks 2 u if he does do this 4 about 5 days and then get 1 of his frindz 2 ask him if he likes u and there u go and if he says no then just play hard to get again i hope it works it does 4 me!! have fun!
2007-03-03 10:16:21 · answer #2 · answered by happy-soccer-feet! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a boy, but I was a teenager so..
Well, do you like a boy in particular? Guys may like you and you just don't know it. If there is a guy that you like , you can ask him to go to the mall with you to pick up a gadget and use that time to hang out with him.
Also, at 13 girls are more advanced socially than boys . Boys are not very good at letting you know when they like you.
If you do get a boyfriend also remember that the needs and wants at that age are a little different. As girls we want to know that we are liked and that the guy cares about us. Boys, in the other hand, are too hormonal to understand that. So be careful about what you expect... Hanging out with your girls can be a lot more fun !
2007-03-03 10:23:51 · answer #3 · answered by Georgie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they know you haven't had a boyfriend, they might be afraid to ask you out b/c they are afraid they can't have you because maybe of your parents. This actually happened to me but wen i got my first boyfriend this year, everyone was askin me out wen we broke up, even 7th graders knew me. I have to give some credit to my very popular 1st boyfriend tho. That's a possibility, the other one is only if you don't talk to certain people. Im 13 too and i am WIDE OPEN this year and i have had a lot of guys ask me out this year, one i really liked and really connected with. Sometimes you just gotta be crazy. but not if its not you, just be your TRUE SELF (even if it IS a lil on the crazy side, friends [and maybe more] will like you for you and your personalilty). 6th grade i was ANTI- SOCIAL and in 7th grade i thot i was too good for everybody. now i talk to anyone but my twin is the total opposite. She says she talks to ppl but i ask her if she talks to certain ppl, not necessarily the mean ones but the cool ones, she says no...... that may be your problem, im just tryin to help.
2007-03-03 10:19:30 · answer #4 · answered by candace. :] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i ain't no teen guy but i would probably say i was in the same situation as you I'm also in the 8th grade but whatever your day will come eventually high school is coming around and eventually you got people all over you but if your rough with guys try not to be ,...be a little more sensitive with them and then you will find out
2007-03-03 10:20:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 12 i am 5'3 and i am 112 pounds but enough about me. Yea aw I really don't know I am going through the same thing you are and asking the same question you are lol. Most say I am too tall. lol. Maybe it's the way you act maybe your moody and you don't notice but you sound very nice so maybe that isn't it i don't know what to tell you lol.
Jewel T
2007-03-03 10:13:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to have the same problem at your age no girls liked me at all, all my friends were total sluts so to say, you just have to wait eventually the right guy will be right in front of you and like you for you, just wait for that and don't force anything or you will find yourself in a realtionship you will regret.
2007-03-03 10:12:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because you are 13 and 130
pounds.And that you are really short.And you need to lose some weight.By now you should of had about 4 boyfriends so far.
2007-03-03 10:14:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
You may not be looking feminine due to your young age..and over weight.. girl try to loose weight and gain attractive figure..and have patience until some one notices you...darling..
2007-03-03 10:15:48 · answer #9 · answered by gentle m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
they do like you they are just afraid you are gonna say no why dont you try asking out a guy
2007-03-03 10:11:53 · answer #10 · answered by Allie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋