I and my ex broke up about 1 month ago, he is dating a new girl now. because we had a long-distance so we havent seen each other for about 9 months. Now I am moving back. He wanted to have dinner with me when he is dating and soon-be girlfriend. Why? and shall I go?thanks
2007-03-03 02:01:36 · 13 answers · asked by eggyaya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He may still have feeling for you. You said you moved away and that is what broke the two of you up. They say that the heart grows fonder when a person moves away but after awhile it gets rather boring. If I were you I would confront him and tell him you will not go out with him when this other girl is still in the picture. It is not fair to her or to you.
2007-03-03 02:08:05 · answer #1 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because he wants to see you and see what you look like after 9months. to see if he is doing better or worse with his new girlfriend... plus he might still care about you and thinks since you are moving back, it might work... long distant relationships are hard and maybe he hasnt let go... sounds like you two still talk? have you not let go either? just think about the break up? was it a bad break up, an agreement or a good one? his fault or your fault.... now which ever it is then base your decision on going to eat dinner with him... GOOD LUCK
2007-03-03 02:10:04 · answer #2 · answered by Jdez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go. It's not like there is any kind of love there - and if there is, don't allow him to cheat with you. This is a dinner with an old friend, not a date. Make sure his gf knows, and that she's okay with it. If you can.
2007-03-03 02:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's only dating, maybe he wants to have dinner with you to test how he feels about you? If he's not ready to move on yet, maybe he'll find out at this dinner. And maybe he'll find out that he's over you... Either way, after the dinner he'll know clearly how he feels about you.
Will you know how you feel about him? My suggestion is to use the evening to talk out your breakup and find out where you stand now, so that there's no ambiguity at the end of the night.
2007-03-03 02:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by Jarien 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because after a long seperation you are fresh meat again! Do not sleep with him! Do not disrespect the girl he is with now! OR, go ahead and see what happens! your choice!
2007-03-03 02:06:31 · answer #5 · answered by sandra b 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he probly just wants to talk. and maybe he wants u 2 to be friends. and maybe the spark will still be there bc he doesnt have a girlfriend yet. its soon to be. or maybe he just needs someone to talk. i would go if i were u. and if u dont want it to seem like a date go in seprate cars and go to like the nmoraml resturant around ntown were everyone. goes. iof he wants rto make it romantic he will.
2007-03-03 02:06:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why not go and see what is up. His girlfriend isn't your problem it is his. Just be careful about falling for him all over again if he is attached. Maybe he misses your company and just wants to hang out.
2007-03-03 02:05:16 · answer #7 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ahhhh, there's nothing like boinking the ex-girlfriend one last time.
2007-03-03 02:08:31 · answer #8 · answered by AZ123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to get laid, by someone other than his current g/f and I wouldn't go if you were his current g/f I'm sure you wouldn't want his ex to go on a date with him.
2007-03-03 02:07:07 · answer #9 · answered by Allie400 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most likely he still has feelings 4 u
2007-03-03 02:06:07 · answer #10 · answered by Shae 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋