I feel guilty but it was great sex though
2007-03-03 01:59:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be ashamed of yourself! If you did not use protection be scared you may have gotten an STD and tell your girlfriend cause if you really loved her you would not have done this in the first place
2007-03-03 02:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
But what do you want to do? Keep on cheating stop doing it. Some people will tell you that you must tell her so that she should decide whether she still needs the relationship. I won't advise you to do so - especially if you know for sure that you'd do everything never to find yourself in that compromising situation.
From what you say - there is no long term relationship with your coworker, but how does she feel? Sort it out with her and let there be understanding that what happened was not supposed to have happened and that you shall not do it again.
You might feel that you want to tell your girlfriend, but are you sure that you'd be able to handle her reaction. You might also be determined to tell her and if the relationship ends, let it be. But experience has shown that in most cases, people go back to plead for second chance. There's an old saying "somethings are left unsaid".
2007-03-03 02:10:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really thought this out ahead of time. You risk your relationship with your girlfriend on one hand. On the other you risk a coworker-job conflict and the possibility that you could have a job problem. Did you drive around without your seatbelt too ? If you love your girlfriend you owe it to her to be faithful. Hope that great sex didn't come with any free STD's.
2007-03-03 02:04:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either break up with the girlfriend and continue with the coworker or stop all contact in the future with the coworker and keep your mouth shut and dont tell the girlfriend.
2007-03-03 02:01:57 · answer #4 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be honest with her and yourself.Do you want to be with
the coworker or the girlfriend?Usually relationships at work don't last.More important sex should not be treated so lightly with all the diseases associated with casual
sex.
2007-03-03 02:05:07 · answer #5 · answered by sharen d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its wrong but at least its your girlfriend and not your WIFE,I would examine your relationship and see what caused you too cheat.If you think it was easy maybe you should just be dating and not have a steady girlfriend as your not ready for the commitment and its not fair to your girlfriend.
2007-03-03 02:07:17 · answer #6 · answered by sasyone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HER.....I'm glad you enjoyed it, but was it really worth ruining your relationship over? Because that's whats going to happen. You need to be honest with your girlfriend. It's completely unfair of you to disrespect her like that, and then hide it from her. She deserves to hear the truth...you owe her that much. Good luck.
2007-03-03 02:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by autumn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. if u TRULY care of her, don't do it again. your body is a temple. pls respect it. if u dont care, if u feel it can happen again,pls break up gently.
2. if u plan to continue with her, pls confess to her a diluted version of the story, get it off ur chest and NEVER CHEAT ON HER AGAIN.
2007-03-03 02:05:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never break your gf's heart. Now that you have done that, do a self check on yourself. What made you do it? No excuses though, i dont believe in u loving ur gf and cheating on her!!!!
2007-03-03 02:09:50 · answer #9 · answered by Stuck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her before she finds out on her own. Not telling her will eat you up on the inside and if she finds out with out you telling her She will end it. But If you come clean she might keep you but that is up to her.
2007-03-03 03:14:59 · answer #10 · answered by DeJay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋