how do i ?

Question

from past 6 months i am in distance relationship we love each other very much my father trust me a lot my mother trust me a lot i was not a person that will fall in love because when ever i used to listen to my friends they said he left me he like some other girl or he just made me time pass i used to get very sad then i started hateing love life . my mother used to trouble me lot she always shout at me and i also used to get angry and i started feeling alone i started to chat 1 time in life i thought chat will be good and i will know about people who are away and able to understand people when i entered chat it was bad few people were good then i started likeing one boy his thought and my thought were same and i fall in love i said to myself no no but my heart was saying go ahead we started loving each other he his comp is not working therefore we are in contact by our cell now i cant hide it anymore how do i tell my parents his family konw but they dont know that i live soso far and

and he spend lot off money on me by calling me std calls evey week he spend 200 -300 Rs on me i love him but i have never told lie to my parents nor i have hide any thing what do i do relationship i ok but we are very far and we cant leave eachother he says i will sell my mobile and i will be able to come to you and when he will come what will i say to my parents?

AND I AM VERY AFRAID OF OUR INDIAN SOCIETY BECAUSE IF THEY WILL KNOW THEN THEY WILL MAKE MY FAMILY LIFE HELL FOE GIRLS INDIAN SOCIETY I S BAD

AND I AM VERY AFRAID OF OUR INDIAN SOCIETY BECAUSE IF THEY WILL KNOW THEN THEY WILL MAKE MY FAMILY LIFE HELL FOR GIRLS INDIAN SOCIETY I S BAD

HE KNOW WERE I LIVE I KNOW WERE I LIKE BUT OUR PARENTS DONT KNOW

SORRY FOR BAD ENGLISH

Answer 1

If you love this guy so much then why and try and hide it from your family and his?
If you parents trust you and understand your feelings then you should tell them instead of hiding it.
The more you hide the more the pain it's going to cause.
You also need to find out that if your boyfriend loves you as much he needs to tell his parents also.
There is no reason for you two to hide no more.
If this is true love like you say, than let it be known.
Stop hiding cause eventually they will find out and then what will happen?
Take my advice and do what is right not matter how much it hurts.
Good Luck

Answer 2

talk to him first find out if he is really into u and u can break the news to ur family and even tell him where u live.

Answer 3

if your innermost love is becoming Lov....ing and you are able for the rest...u know what i mean...go ahead....but be careful life is not only a cell... its much more......distance relationship is itself a taboo. not in India only, but in western countries too...
paul . [e-mail]

Answer 4

Listen to your parents.

Answer 5

if u love him whole heatedly just dare and talk about him to ur parents
good luck!!!!!!!!!

Answer 6

...? i barely understood you.....