Ok I have a very good friend who has a girlfriend but lately me and him have relised that we really like eachother as well.
Anyway i was texting him and he said that he really doesnt know what to do and his heads all over the place etc.
Then on tuesday night he got drunk while he was out with me and his girlfriend (we are all good friends) then i left him home in quite a state and later that night he text me saying these words "its all my fault" and then foned me saying he had cut himself.
i drove to his house and there was blood everywere and i foned an ambulance. anyway now that its all over with i cant help myself thinking that he done this because of what we feel for eachother because we both know its wrong and really hate the situation!!!? do u think it sounds like he did this because of me?
2007-03-03 01:45:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
oh no it does noy
takl to ur friend about this
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2007-03-03 02:35:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
not really, he could've been talking about anything ( example: I broke the tv after an argument, it's all my fault!)
The only reason you think it's for you is because that's what you want and not the actual fact. Then again that is your friend and you know him better than I do.........so just stay a true friend and give him your honest opinion when asked ( do not manipulate) be there for him, and if it is meant to happen then things will turn out eventually on their own!......
good luck!
2007-03-03 09:56:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not to be blamed.he perhaps was not in a balanced mind when he took the extreme step.the best thing for you to do is to meet him along with your other friend-girl and speak out the real facts.if your friend who is his girlfriend walks out from him,he gets alright.in case he wants both of you,then you should only decide what to do
2007-03-03 10:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by gem_76_1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's just really confused. You shouldn't blame yourself over this. You can't control other people's actions so don't blame yourself. You can't control who you like so its not your fault. He's just having some issues that he needs to deal with. Try to be there for him as much as you can.
2007-03-03 09:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by skaur1290 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not your fault, and he told it when he said "It is my fault".
He feels guilty because he loves you and his girlfriend...and as he felt overwhelmed by the responsibility of the choice, he punished himself threatening his life...
The choice of which one of the two he will keep is his...
2007-03-03 09:56:58 · answer #5 · answered by mbestevez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it doesnt.
i think its natural what you are feeling, that your feeling its your fault.
but it isnt, you arent responsable for anyones actions.
the best you can do is just be there for him.
and watch over him. :]
2007-03-03 09:50:17 · answer #6 · answered by aliciakatherine. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋