so there is this dude I am in love with and we r goin out. Then after I break up with him for being a jerk he cusses me out. I cried when he did. But l8ter another dude I like asked me out BUt should I say yes? Or should I be polite to my ex bf and wait a while???
2007-03-03 01:27:56 · 12 answers · asked by sUpEr ChIcK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you seriously care about being polite when he hurt you like that and was so very impolite to you?...go for it!
2007-03-03 01:31:27 · answer #1 · answered by madaboutyou55 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I love these questions.
Heres the question that should be asked.
Do you still want to be with the ex-boyfriend?
The feelings for you ex-boyfriend is to obviuos.
You still want him and your heart is telling you this.
You need to take time and listen to your heart before you get hurt again.
I speak from expierence so I know what I'm talking about.
I just lost my love because I wasn't listening hard enough.
I don't want this to happen to you or anyone else.
What you should do is talk to your ex-boyfriend and just talk and find out if there is something that can be saved.
Just don't jump into another relationship with another friend cause this will only add wood to the fire that your ex-boyfriend is probably trying to forget.
Just sit down and talk, and if that doesn't work out than move slow on your next relationship.
Know what you want from your relationship and get it out in the open first so that way your new love will know what to exp[ect from you insteading of guessing.
Good Luck
2007-03-03 01:38:45 · answer #2 · answered by turtlepowered350 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're willing to wait why? If you like a jerk then wait otherwise move on and have fun with the next one. You are NOT obligated to your ex, hence he's an ex. Lifes too short to waste your time and energy on a jerk.
2007-03-03 01:35:14 · answer #3 · answered by amberraven2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt wait for your ex f him but you should wait for yourself because you need time between relationships, dont be in a rush, get to kow each other and maybe things will get work out with this dude.
2007-03-03 01:35:01 · answer #4 · answered by Lucy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, you wanna make the same mistake again - going out with your ex. Hey, he hurt you once, and you are still pretending as being polite one. If I were you, I would give a chance to someone new.
Good luck
2007-03-03 01:38:24 · answer #5 · answered by NedimD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your ex is treating you badly you dont need to show him respect,but before you go out with another guy make sure that he wont treat you the same way as your ex did,be smart take your time and think if he really is the other one for you
2007-03-03 01:33:27 · answer #6 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you attached to a jerk? Don't worry about his feelings, he didn't worry about yours. As to dating again, stay single awhile until you decide what kind of guy you want to be with.
Dating is when you have something in your life you want to share, and are looking for a similar person to share it with.
2007-03-03 01:32:55 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you should define what being in love is, ask yourself this question( do I love this person? or do I love being with this person?) relationships are a dime a dozen. Enjoy your youth,girlfriends,parties.Or, sit home and cry about some stupid boy who is using you as a stepping stone through his life!!!
2007-03-03 01:36:54 · answer #8 · answered by sandra b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait is my suggestion. but ur the super chick, so you decide, just so you know that this other guy only asked you out so he could be the rebound guy. he might not actually like you.
2007-03-03 01:34:14 · answer #9 · answered by Wilson J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why, move on go out with him. you only live once. your wasting your time with waiting for your ex
2007-03-03 01:32:20 · answer #10 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋