Go out with a hot guy who is a jerk regret it then do the same thing again. They say when they are single they are looking for a nice guy but they never go out with one.
2007-03-03 01:22:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
most men are jerks (sorry) but most girls like to go out with a man who is good looking but but they dont care if he is mean. its impossible to find a nice man that is hot too these days they mostly care about the looks so they cant get made fun of.
2007-03-03 01:28:28 · answer #1 · answered by Rebecca R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls enjoy a good chase. I think part of the thrill is going after someone you know isn't going to lay on the compliments and sweet nothings extra thick. I believe at the beginning of the relationship, atleast for me personally, being "too nice" is a turn off. Don't get me wrong, I adore nice men and I'm dating a really great guy right now...but the reason I am with him is because at the beginning, he gave just the right amount of nice/jerk appeal. He did the cute little things that all girls swoon for, but then he'd back off a little bit...or wouldn't make himself overly available or make it 100% apparent that he was into me. It made me even more interested in him!
It doesn't make sense, but it's part of the game I guess. Just until you know you're both interested and decide to be committed...that's when being a genuinely nice guy is appreciated and necessary....so if you are a nice guy, don't get frustrated. When a girl dates a jerk, it's over before you know it. But when they find a truly nice one, they'll definitely work hard to keep you.
2007-03-03 09:35:08 · answer #2 · answered by autumn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hot guys are easy to spot. but please do remember that NOT every girl is looking for some hot guy. Just so happen that we easily get attracted to well dressed, cool looking, hair flippin', smooth talkin', sleek bodied, etc. guys who knows how to flaunt their stuff with an attitude!
but dont get us wrong...again, NOT every Ladies out there is like that. Perhaps "nice guys" aren't as VISIBLE as the other guys were. Believe me, ladies like their man being a "real gentleman" the most.
but why do we still go out with a jerk you asked? Maybe the Gentleman next door is taking too much time to gather his strenght to ask her out TODAY! then its not our fault! its those NICE MEN's fault. Letting the Ladies wait...
Maybe ladies should open their eyes more to see that they have been making the same mistake. And that Mr. nice guy is just around the corner waiting to be seen. But then again, Perhaps it would help us if Mr. Nice Guys who's just around the corner would come nearer and be a gentleman to open the door for us and finally introduce themselves...WE might find what we've been looking for in a man,..it could be in the person of.....YOU!
2007-03-03 10:01:44 · answer #3 · answered by mistiqueKNIGHT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that is an incredible real life questions cause that happens alot to most, dependent females, because not only do they think that they can make the guy change but also the fact they are esily manipulated. You are better than that and they will come into realization with that thought sooner or later. So if you like a gurl of that matter I suggest u wait until the one for you comes along cause she will.
2007-03-03 09:31:39 · answer #4 · answered by Lucy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps because they cannot look into a guy heart and know that he is not sincere...well foretell his intentions....
I don`t think anybody in her good sense would go out with someone who is a ......
And when they never go out with anybody means that they`ve had enough of being used.... and are hopeless about the existance of nice guys....they are becoming extinct....
2007-03-03 09:33:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because sometimes we are just looking for guys to date and say we have a boyfriend. but if we really want to get serious we wont choose the hot guy instead we will choose the one that will treat us right. i personally like the nice guys
2007-03-03 09:28:29 · answer #6 · answered by esile619 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regret it? I never regretted dating a jerk. Infact, I'm marrying one. I'm an as s hole, so we compliment eachother.
2007-03-03 09:26:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because as much as we want someone to be nice to us we kinda like the uncertinty...im telling you no matter how old you get playing hard to get still works...we want a challenge...and the super nice guys may be fun for a date or two but then you just seem cheesy and lame...dont be rude to us but dont be drippingly sweet either
2007-03-03 09:29:38 · answer #8 · answered by madaboutyou55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, thats so very true, i hate when they act that way , when they are played then they open their eyes, till then they are blinded as someone said looking for jerks!
2007-03-03 09:27:44 · answer #9 · answered by Zorro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't know how to spot a jerk until it's too late.
2007-03-03 09:27:04 · answer #10 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋