im kinda liking this guy. So what's the problem? he's 26 years old. I'm 18, turn 19 later this year.
He hasent thought his life through yet so he's working at factory. And he still lives at home. For me, it's important to be independent, he doesn't seem to be that cuz he lives at home. And it's scaring me that he's that old, he's gonna want family soon and heck, im still young.
So, should i go for it anyways? Give it a try?
2007-03-03 01:16:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No your to young..dont waste your childhood
2007-03-03 01:19:13 · answer #1 · answered by IC4NDY_ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he ask you to be his in the first place? If he didn't, don't even think about giving it a try. It's not worth it although you are kinda like him. Hey, he's only 8 years older than you and there's no issue with that if you like older guys. It's true that a woman needs to be independent but once she finds her man, she must learn to be dependent on him. It doesn't mean that he's not independent if he stays at home. It simply means that he hasn't gotten married yet!! LOL! You two make a pair despite the difference in age. Seriously I don't see any problems with this age gap. Older men tend to be mature. If you think that you do not meet his level of maturity, then I suggest that you call it quit. If not, problems will arise and it's better to be safe than sorry. Since you two have not started any relationship, I'd suggest that you weigh your preferences with careful thoughts. Decide what you want and know what you need in a man.
2007-03-03 09:36:48 · answer #2 · answered by superb2dmax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grief ... what are you doing with your life.
The man is 26 and you are only 18. That's 8 years difference. Different if you were 30 and he 38.
He's still at home happily staying with his parents. They look after him, he's working in a factory (but at least he has a job).
If he want's a family that means that you are going to stay at home looking after the kids. Anyway, what makes you think he will want a family soon. He's on the pigs back living at home and being looked after.
You say you are independent ... hopefully he doesn't want to live off of you or even .... stay at home with the kids while you go to work.
Don't make any rash moves at all. Don't go there.
2007-03-03 09:27:09 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you go for a relationship with someone and think about settling down with that person theres no such thing as give it a try,theres no try out in that kind of commitment so you have to make sure that both of you are ready before you do it,your still young you still have a lot to think of,think about your future first and ask yourself if you are ready to commit your life to him and forget about a bright future that you can make and do
2007-03-03 09:23:33 · answer #4 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!! The last thing you want to be asking yourself all the time 'what if' . Ive also dated guy that was 9 years older then me, it didnt end well , but i dont regret a thing.
2007-03-03 09:20:01 · answer #5 · answered by curiouzgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give him some of that sunshine from between your legs and make him happy. Shave it first and make it really shine.
2007-03-03 09:20:46 · answer #6 · answered by johnny j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, find some-one that has goals for himself and doesn't live at home. Don't sell your-self short.
2007-03-03 09:21:43 · answer #7 · answered by bdgizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, give him a try do not get serious remember you don't have to marry him just dating take it slow. Good Luck!
2007-03-03 09:26:22 · answer #8 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO I completly agree with ON DA RUN
2007-03-03 09:20:26 · answer #9 · answered by mary kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah...if u dont then how will u know that it wasnt meant to be?
2007-03-03 09:24:56 · answer #10 · answered by blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋