i've been together with my ex for happy 3 months, and we've never quarrelled. but suddenly he said that he lost feelings for me, and stopped thinking of me. we were laughing right up to the second that he said he wanted to just remain friends. i was heartbroken and cried for a week already. i still love him a lot. i tried talking to him like before we were together, but i always end up bringing up the breakup. he's starting to ignore some of my smses. how are feelings "lost", and is it possible to get him back?
2007-03-03 00:58:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i really thought we were meant to be together. it hurts, but im sure i never want to let him go. i don't think now is the right time to ask him out again yet, but he's going to NS in a few weeks time. what should i do?
2007-03-03 13:19:47 · update #1
it's very odd that suddenly he just lost his feelings for you, but maybe this guy is very crazy and indeed doesn't have any feelings for you anymore.
at the same time, he might be going through something and thought it was better to go through it all without you, it happened to a friend of mine, after it was all over he got back, explained everything and said he was sorry.
try to be friends with your ex and find out what's happening to him. hopefully you'll regain his heart again.
good luck :)
2007-03-03 01:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure if this can help, but i can try. When my gf broke up with me after 2 months, i was heartbroken. then, when i finally was starting to get over it, she said that she made a mistake and asked me back out. i made the mistake of saying yes and we only went out for another day. I think that its possible to get him back, and if you do, i hope that it works out better than it did for me
2007-03-03 01:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by Matt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him and tell him that you agree with him that you also feel that he is not for you.
Go and find another guy ,there are many gorgeous men out there waiting to date you.
2007-03-03 01:03:09 · answer #3 · answered by raul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that means he just wanted to be with you for sex,so its time for you to think about moving on before he use you to the fullest,wake up and move on stay away from him
2007-03-03 01:02:25 · answer #4 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people can change as they mature and so do feelings. Let
him go and move on with your life.
2007-03-03 01:02:46 · answer #5 · answered by dgreer58 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he stil llike you. perhap he think it is wrong for him to agree o nthe breakup ...he is now guilty conscience ...you should ask him for a patch back. .he still love you waiting for you
2007-03-03 06:54:38 · answer #6 · answered by danny l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not, it can be heart breaking when their feelings change but its best just to try and get over it.
2007-03-03 01:05:36 · answer #7 · answered by ladydaisy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's telling you he just want to be friends,just leave it at that and just move on:(
2007-03-03 01:04:06 · answer #8 · answered by ddreaddsjr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anything can happen
2007-03-03 01:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋