If a guy told you he was a virgin and he wasn't, would you stay with him?? What if that was the only lie he told you??
Why or why not??
2007-03-03 00:53:32 · 14 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have a question: How do you tell that he is not a virgin?
2007-03-03 00:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all...you better find out about his sexual history and if he has any STD (remember you don't want details, just basic info).
Most the guys I've dated have lied about the number of women they slept with at first, (never dated a virgin and really wouldn't want to)... then they told the truth after awhile (I nag sometimes).
This all depends on you...
Do you think honesty is the basis of a good relationship? (if so never get married!)
If you do, maybe you should leave, or pull away until you see that he wont lie anymore.
2007-03-03 09:05:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would a guy lie about that? Hmmm - oh well I guess. I don't know if I'd get rid of him - but I'd find out his reasoning behind it - and if you're sure he's not and he still won't admit it - yes, by all means - get rid of him! How do you know this is the only lie he's told you?? This is just the only one you have caught him at thus far - so yeah, good luck *aight l8*
2007-03-03 08:58:24 · answer #3 · answered by mplskid81 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kind of vague. If he would lie once, I suppose he would lie about other things. It's really a decision you have to make for yourself. Either you trust him or you don't. If you don't, walk away now.
2007-03-03 08:58:02 · answer #4 · answered by Alterfemego 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's an "iffy" situation. just go with ur gut. that's ur call bcuz it would totally depend on the circumstances but just keep n mind if he'll tell a lil white lie, chances are he'll tell a big black lie
2007-03-03 08:59:02 · answer #5 · answered by Brandi A. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes..I would leave...any relationship that starts out with a lie about something like that has no where to go but down...sorry
2007-03-03 08:56:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he realises he lied to me and apologises....i will forgive him because i love him...you cannot dump a guy only because of a mistake he did....
And if he apologises and still continue to lie to me, then i will be compelled to leave him....
2007-03-03 09:14:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it may start out as one lie but it will progress he is a liar so dump him there r plenty of guys out there that r not liars
2007-03-03 08:57:45 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt stay wid him he's obviously trying too use u for something. no relationship without trust
2007-03-03 08:57:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
doesnt matter,there is always a first on a persons life,if you like him then you should be honored to deflower him and teach him how to make you happy use it to your advantage,dont you like to have a love slave?
2007-03-03 09:00:25 · answer #10 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋