2007-03-03 00:43:18 · 26 answers · asked by Shivangee S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
do not avoid him. tell him directly that you do not want to marry him, simple as that. if he can't take the hint, the best thing to do is tell the police about it. they should take care of it. should he continue to stalk you and persistently ask you to maryy him, file a case against him, if he calls or texts you, do not erase his messages, spacially if he is starting to threaten you. these are concrete evidence for court. if you do not want to go on legally, you may avoid him, replace your number and tell your friends and family to look out for him and never let him near you. well, the best still is to go to the police.
2007-03-03 00:53:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 01:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are already attached. If he still refuses to leave you alone, get a very close fren to pretend to be your boyfren. Arrange for the 3 of you to go out together and ensure that he gets the impression that you are deeply in love. He should back off... I hope...
2007-03-03 00:59:15 · answer #3 · answered by i am who i am 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had the same problem once. this guy was totally obsessed with me, and wanted me to marry him, all of this only made fall "out" of love with him. i kept it going until one day, i just got fed up. when i knew how jealous he was, i started hanging around my guy friends, then i told him all of the stuff that i did 2 him in the past. when he asked me why i would do that to him i just told him straight up,"I'm NOT going to marry you, we are NOT soul mates, and I do NOT love you." after our little chit chat i blocked him from all of my email addresses, told him NEVER to call my house or i would call the police, and every time i passed him in the hallway i would stare right through him. now i have a wonderful fiance', and the obsessive guy is seeing someone else. You just have to live your life the way YOU want to live it. don't let others control it.
2007-03-03 02:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by party_girl10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that there is a limit to everything and he has to understand that love is something that cannot be bought from somewhere. It has to come from heart and if he will not leave troubling you, you will either shift to an unknown place or report him to parents/teachers/boss/police whoever can restrain him.
2007-03-03 01:29:07 · answer #5 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then tell him to read your lips "yes, i won't be there" I don't believe in someone getting married for the wrong reason, for the wrong person and for the wrong time... All this got to blend in, in order for you to be happy. You the same are entitled to have and make your own happiness happen, no one can force you or make you do things that you don't want.
2007-03-03 03:22:36 · answer #6 · answered by *Pretty Pink* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want nothing else to do with him ever 2 words for ya honey
RESTRINING ORDER...LOL I know that may be a little extreme but that may be the only solution.
Now what I would do is tell him no and to leave you alone amd if he chooses not to tell him you are going to see what your legal resources are. That may scare him off
2007-03-03 01:23:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wont leave you alone seriously then call the police and put a restaining order against him. Dont talk to him, dont call him or answer his calls. If he shows up at your door have someone else tell him to leave and call the police if he wont leave.
2007-03-03 03:10:00 · answer #8 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seen a restraining order somewhere up there....I agree. If he won't take your no and keeps pestering you then get it so he can't be 100 feet within you. Good luck!
2007-03-03 00:51:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happened to me once, he also told me that the minute I tell him tht I'm in love with someone else he'd go away...so I did, even though I had no one...I made him up and he did go away.
2007-03-03 01:02:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋