Why or why not? I have had two partners- a child with one. Now that I have changed my life around I would like to abstain. Would this be hard for a christain man to understand. I know they should not judge me but, would the guy have a hard time with this if the dated me?
2007-03-03 00:40:47 · 8 answers · asked by Rachel 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Yes - I do abstain. And yes, it's hard to do. However, if a man really wants to develop a true relationship with you, he will not be put off by your choice to abstain.
If he isn't interested in the relationship if it does not involve sex, then he isn't worth the time.
A relationship needs to be built on much firmer foundations than sex.
Stay strong, sister!
2007-03-03 00:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by SpiritRoaming 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It should not be hard for a Christian man to understand abstinence in an un-married relationship. If you feel abstinence is the right thing for you, then you should remain abstinent. Don't let anyone pressure you otherwise. A true Christian man will understand and support this.
2007-03-03 00:48:31 · answer #2 · answered by J.R. 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
are you abstaining from sex? if so good luck but as you know it will not be easy.and no it will not be hard for a christian man to understand because in Christianity you are taught to abstain before marriage.
2007-03-03 02:26:58 · answer #3 · answered by FUMZY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're so bothered about abstinence, don't hold any hopes of getting yourself another bloke!
2007-03-03 01:33:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No man, be it Christian or Hindu or Muslim, welcomes abstinence unless either forced by
circumstances like physical deficiency or other
people.
2007-03-03 00:51:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
God calls His people to purity. And also to repentance. Just because you've been wrong, doesn't mean you have to stay wrong. I was impure before I met my wife, and we abstained until after we were married. And we're better for it.
2007-03-03 00:47:35 · answer #6 · answered by startthisover 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I'm sure you can find a guy who's abstaining to but seriously you need to reconsider. Then again, you've been with two guys and are willing to give up sex, I'm betting they weren't very good.
I just made level 4, thanks
2007-03-03 00:46:22 · answer #7 · answered by hot carl sagan: ninja for hire 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Why would he date you if you don't want to have sex ? I find this confusing...
You should get some (medical) counseling on this issue. It will help you sort things out.
Zyprexa (use only as directed, talk to a doctor) is often a great help to treat delusional mental disorders.
2007-03-03 00:51:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋