How can you tell between the girl who likes you but playing hard to get and the one who is simply saying NO?

Question

Some girls are shy, that is, by their education, they were told not to accept any male's proposition on the first trial; therefore many girls tend to play the very hard to get rather than give in to the first admirer . But for us men, this kind of mixed signals is often difficult to decipher, however, from those signals that are simply meant to be a flat No. How can you help? Thanks.

Answer 1

I don't know if you'll believe or like my answer .... but, I don't know many girls that were taught not to accept a guys proposition on the first trial. If a girl likes a guy she will not turn him down just to avoid looking over-eager. (I'm assuming by "proposition" you mean asking them out for a date?) My advice to you is this, if you ask a girl out and she says no but you suspect she is just playing "hard to get" (again, that would be highly unlikely in my opinion) I would then say, "Well, I'd love to see you sometime, here's my number please call me if you'd like to get together sometime for a cup of coffee, or a drink." At that point, if a girl were REALLY interested in you she would contact you.

P.S. If a girl really would turn you down in the interest of "playing games" with you ... would you really want to date her?

Answer 2

you can generally tell a person's feelings by observing the body language and facial expressions. if she says no, but there's interest in her eyes and/or smile, then its worth some pursuit, if you're keen. if the no is with a flat, hard i'm-not-interested look, then back off.

Answer 3

hmmm, tough question.. i guess, just ask her... when the girl starts to act a little flirty or close to you then maybe she likes you but when she is avoiding you that means no... she gives you the cold treatment... just don't give up!

Answer 4

no is no... but you could always ask again later but dont be a stalker.