It's a Fact!
Women abuse nice guys, but will always get used and pregnant by the Loser guy.
It's really amazing that's most Women can't figure this out and then complain that guys use and get them pregnant, instead of just Loving a Nice guy, like me, the lonely, nice guy!
and Women, Please don't feel sorry for me. I'm better off being alone - than getting abused by abusive Women! And I still have so much Love to give, if I ever met an Intelligent, Kind Woman, but so far, after 48 years, have Not found her!
2007-03-02 23:57:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dink you are so fukking funny! I know what you mean. I was going thru that with a girl I met a while ago. She told me I wasnt her type but every guy she ever got with did her bad. I eventually lost interest because she was causing me too much stress and in definite reflection I determined I was better than any man she ever met and it conceptually blew her mind.
The best thing you have to know going for you is that when you are in the high 30s and 40s you will have a plethora of women who at this time in their life will understand their errors. This means to you that you will have plenty of ladies to choose from to entertain yourself. I d recommend keeping company with about 5 or 6 that most closely resemble the personality and interests you have. I ve seen the signs and Dink, when you are 36- and up watch. Watch as the women start correcting themselves and desiring stable relationships.
2007-03-03 03:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by juanpeligroso1 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is an interesting question. I have often asked myself the same thing about men. Why do men go for the trashy hood-rat women over the women that have things going for herself? Why do we all like drama? I do believe that some women really love drama even though they say they don't. Women are attracted to these men because of the excitement of the drama. If the man already has kids when you meet them, the thrill is there could be some drama with the kids mother. Most women don't know a man is a loser until they have spent countless hours with him and then they feel like they are stuck with him. Sucks but that is the way it is. There are some women though, that see a man and want him for all of his material possessions (money, cars, clothes etc). They think that he is going to buy them the world. In some cases this si true but not without a smack here or a slap there. The life of a gold-digger. Sorry I had to be so blunt.
2007-03-03 01:24:15 · answer #2 · answered by feather-girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women do that for one or more of three reasons:
1) low self esteem - they dont feel they deserve a good relationship.
2) they confuse being assertive and masculine with acting like a jerk
3) the "loser " always causes conflict and challenges, and the woman finds a purpose in life - taking care of the "bad boy." Example - the girl who is in a relationship with an active alcoholic who cant hold a job. The girl feels useful and important by supporting him.
2007-03-03 00:18:07 · answer #3 · answered by Jeffrey P 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There are so many factors that relate to this question that the real answer lies in a combination of a lot of them. First of all, most people are jealous of people they see as better than themselves. When women see a nice guy they are reminded of the qualities that they dont have and what they see in themselves that they dont like. With a loser, women feel superior, and its all about their insecurities. Throw in your typical chemical and hormonal changes that women experience and the end result is irrational behavior at times.
2007-03-03 00:06:03 · answer #4 · answered by B Wilson 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I was like this. I dated bad boys. I finally met a man that was nice and got married at age 28. It took me that long to wake up.
So sorry.
Just don't be so available or call too much. It's human nature to want what's not so easy to get. What I'd do if I were you, find out what you are doing wrong. See a counselor. I'll bet you it's something you don't know you are doing!
2007-03-03 00:02:37 · answer #5 · answered by Jeanmarie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because all the stupid women doesnt know the difference between love n liking, crush n true feelings, n they just wanted to show their frends that they have best in town with them.
ofcoure the one who is nice, will alwys luv u so women should stick to the one who will be the father of the child not the one who wil make u single mum.
2007-03-03 00:04:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I totally agree with you... I have a 21 year old son that's honest loyal trustworthy and very nice and kind BUT Girls/Women these days rather get someone that doesn't call them or smack them around and treat them like crap.... i asked several girls why that is and they all say... No one wants a wimp.. EXCUSE ME but if being a Gentleman and treat your woman right means you're a wimp then more power to the wimps...
2007-03-03 00:03:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 1⤋
the guy i'm with is the nice guy. he would never use me and he's in love with me and we're going to get married.
i know what your talking about though. i was with the loser guy too. i thought i loved him but found out that i really didnt. he cheated on me many times but i still stayed with him. loser guys know how to talk to a girl to get them to stick around. they make you feel so good. alot of girls fall for that then. my current bf also knows how to talk but i know that i'm his only girl.
2007-03-03 00:01:52 · answer #8 · answered by Heather 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all MOST women don't do that....and by the way you're talking I don't consider you a "nice guy" just because you're lonely...you're just finding reasons for women not to like you
2007-03-03 00:04:53 · answer #9 · answered by problem_girl 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Women like to cut up and have fun, so they stay with guys that cut up, don't work and have fun
2007-03-03 00:02:30 · answer #10 · answered by kayef57 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋