a guy and i have a casual arrangement regarding sex, but the problem is, its always on his terms, wen he wants sex he'l text me but wen im horny he dosent txt me back. wat should i do? is there anythin wrong in bein a booty call?
2007-03-02 23:46:39 · 22 answers · asked by pixiexxpixiexpixie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, there is nothing wrong with your arrangement as long as it is all good and equal, which it doesn't seem to be. Maybe he's scared that you want more and is keen to 'keep you in your place' if you know what I mean. You know what mens ego's are like. I would explain that you love the arrangemnet you have got going on, but it's unfair for you to be frustarted when he doesn't answer, so he either answers or you will find another dude to enjoy, and point out that us women NEVER have trouble finding a guy to have so strings sex with, but for a guy to find a girl truely happy and confident enough to do it? He should be on his knees thanking God he has you to play with!
2007-03-03 00:02:25 · answer #1 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the only thing wrong here is that you are letting him make all the rules, you are no long just a booty call to him, he now considers you to be his personal plaything, teach him a lesson and go out with some other guy and when he texts you dint answer, don't answer him for a few days unless he is the psycho type that should tell him something is wrong if he is the psycho type tell him good bye and mean it but make sure you have plenty of people around with you. you can never predict just how some one will react when they found out that they are not the rulers of this world anymore.
2007-03-02 23:51:22 · answer #2 · answered by Lazrus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the point in a casual sexual relationship like this.
Sex is a special thing between two people who care for each other and enjoy giving pleasure to each other.
Stop texting and answering texts from this guy, go out and find yourself a guy that loves you.
Then you will experinece true sex
2007-03-03 00:16:30 · answer #3 · answered by deardaveuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there is nothing wrong with booty calls as long as both of you are getting the benefits of it.
From the sounds of it this guy can get you whenever he wants but when its you that wants it he doesn't seem to care.
If you want to carry on with this arrangement then you have to give him an ultimatum, either he starts to reply to your needs as well or the arrangement is over.
It might just be a booty call babe but you still deserve respect, so get it!!
Good luck xxx
2007-03-03 00:12:26 · answer #4 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 04:12:40 · answer #5 · answered by seabrooks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't mind being someone's occasional playtoy, then it's fine, I suppose.
But you're getting a raw deal. This isn't a sort of "friends with privellages" arrangement, or one of mutual respect. It seems like a raw deal that he's controlling this. You're basically just a vagina that's to be used as he pleases.
I'd drop him. It's not like there's any lack of men around, and probably much more likely to find a more fair arrangement.
2007-03-02 23:51:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You must not have much respect for yourself having some guy texting u for sex.... 2 me there is something wrong. what is it you can't get a bf.
2007-03-02 23:54:17 · answer #7 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theirs nothing wrong with being a booty call but when you call on him something wrong with him. most likely he has a girlfriend. Don't catch any feeling's.
2007-03-02 23:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by DOLOC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there's nothing wrong with it. i was at one point too. i think its just wrong that he doesnt do ne thing when your horny but when he is then you meet up with him. he should really be up for sex when you are. you shouldnt always have to go to him for his needs. your needs need to be taking care of too.
2007-03-02 23:49:17 · answer #9 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's just using you. I'd find someone else to text. You'll find the right one. You don't need him.
2007-03-02 23:55:57 · answer #10 · answered by mtzstaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋