we've hated each other since i was 6 or 7. i am now 10.
2007-03-02 23:37:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Melanie.....if it is true that you are 10.........your language is very sophisticated for a 10 year old.
But no....it is not too late. You think your mom knows nothing and you know everything.
When you get to 15....you will realise that you didn't know everything 5 years ago, but you do now.
When you get to 20....you will be amazed at how much your mom knew all along. And hasn't she learned a lot in the last 10 years???
2007-03-02 23:45:07 · answer #1 · answered by lou b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've probably haven't hated each other since you were 6. You just didn't have that special bond like most mothers and daughters do. So what I would do is defiantly talk to her. Ask why hasn't our relationship been so close. And if you need to give expamles and be blunt. Sometimes the truth hurts. And maybe she needs to hear it.
2007-03-03 08:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by The Redheaded Monster 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what give you the idea that your mom hates you???? no mother hate their child. You are just 10 years old, i am sure you just dont understand how parents show their love to their children. Every parents have their own way showing their love to their children. Some with love, some with all the screaming, some with all the spanking and etc. Don't think she hates you, i am sure there are reasons. When you get older, you will understand.
2007-03-03 07:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by MiSz JaY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you dead?.......
Hmm i guess not so i dont think its to late to at least make a attempt in helping the relation ship with your mother.
well i hope you know that things could all ways be worse then what they are now... for instant's: you could be me (smile)
But if your going to make a attempt you might want to do some Investigating into why you guys have been apart and have no relationship... But remember to have a open mind because people do thing that they might think is right, but turns out that they were just scared, or mad, or just flat out spent...
just remember "If your going to make anything better, you have to be better then anything."
Its a saying that means dont forget to forgive things that are unforgivable. Or you may not be able to forgive yourself...
2007-03-03 07:54:37 · answer #4 · answered by Weirdo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not say you hate eachother. HATE is such a strong word especially towards the giver of your life. It is not too late to save your relationship. I loved my mother dearly, sure we fought every once in a while, but every one does. We always patched up our differences in the end. Don't leave ot until it's too late. My mum passed away very suddenly, she suffered a stroke without any warning. She's been gone nearly three years and I still miss her so much. Please don't leave it until it's too late, because you'll regret it for the rest of your life. Even if you can't patch things up, make sure you tell her that you love her. Take care.
2007-03-03 07:47:35 · answer #5 · answered by k_irs_t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, do you hate eachother everyday? If you really think that this is something that isn't going to resolve itself, maybe you should talk to an aunt, uncle or a grandparent about it and what they think you should do. Me and my mum never got along until we stopped living under the same roof, but since you only ten, you should exhaust all other avenues before trying that.
Good luck. Try to be nice and set an example for her (although you definetely shouldn't have to).
2007-03-03 08:51:53 · answer #6 · answered by ...hello? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend has relationship issues with her mom too. It's really sad. Her mom doesn't care for her properly (she's15) her mom just doesn't care about her at all. And my best friend wishes her mom would get run over by a bus. It's truly very sad. I hope your relationship with your mom isn't like this. But if it is, you probably can't talk to her. I would at least try, and if nothing happens then at least you tried. Sorry.
2007-03-03 09:17:35 · answer #7 · answered by Sa♪ah ツ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt if your mom hates you, but she could dislike the way you act sometimes. So isn't it the same for you? Hate is a pretty strong word. Maybe you could give it a rest for awhile and try to see how hard things from a different perspective.
2007-03-03 08:04:03 · answer #8 · answered by Alterfemego 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 is a difficult age, you're growing up but your mom probably still thinks ur a baby...u guys need to talk, dont ever think its too old to save ur relationship...can u guys look for a counselor to find out whats going on?
2007-03-03 07:39:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate is a strong word, Melanie, and runs a fine parallel to love. It is normal for a parent and child to butt heads and hearts when both are bull-headed. It would behoove you to settle down and try to regain a nurturing relationship with your mother. It is never to late to forgive and move forward.
I wish you joy, dear one.
2007-03-03 08:42:11 · answer #10 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋