Don't know how to face an ex-girlfriend whom i annoyed after she said she no longer loves me.I pestered her for about a month and even cut my wrist in an attempt to get her back.Now everything's fine n normal,it's been a week or 2.I don't know how to face her,what kind of expression to show and what kind of feelings to carry.I have to admit my heart still longs for her to love me back again very much,yet i know she's gotten over me.What mentality should i be having?
2007-03-02 23:02:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u still remember Nsync listen to their song "GONE" it should help a little and find something else to occupy your time
2007-03-02 23:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by kandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot control other people's feelings and how they handle situations. You are only able to control how you feel and how you handle situations. Don't you think it's kind of scary to a girl to know that you are capable of slitting your wrists?
You have a controling personality and it's a turn off to women in general. Learn how to roll with the punches that life gives you and KNOW that something better is coming around the corner. We are rewarded with great things when we learn how to behave properly in society. Practice thinking that everything will be okay and life does get better. It's not necessary to go to extremes because life is only hard if you make it that way. I wish you the best of luck.
2007-03-03 07:13:32 · answer #2 · answered by rggiggles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to move on and realize that you cant make someone love u or stay around, and why would u want to? if ur in a relationship u would want the person to want to stay....not force them. sometimes it takes a while to get over someone but just get involved with something to get ur mind off her...shes moved on and now its ur turn
2007-03-03 07:31:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give your self a break from thinking of her, don't think of her any more, move on, think of your self... go out meet new people, don't think about what happened, talk to your close friend when feel bad, try not to be alone for long time when you are feeling down just go out and find some one to talk to
you will be fine, you just need time
Good luck
2007-03-03 07:14:40 · answer #4 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u truly love some1 than dsnt matter wat ever they do cz wen u love someone u accept the person the way he/ she is, now when u know she dnt love u n u also know that u still love her, wat else u can do. Look this life, watever v want its nt necessary that u will get it cz if this way life is going to be than evertime it could happen watever u have other ppl may want it too n if its abt the ppl n relationship u have than u will nt be able to give it to somebdy else.
c its ver simple wen some goes out of ur life he/she is making space for someone else to come, n the one who stays forever regardless circumstances, society , status is the one who loves u truly. she dont love u thats wat u need to understnd. she might like u n belive me u can like many ppl , day in day out however love happens only once and if u love somebody and after 2 sdays u fall in love with somebdy else than it was not love it was just attraction hence you cant even control attraction but i m sure the moment u find tru love of your life u dnt even feel like to ask these question becuase for you the best is with u and nothing matters alot than her. so she was only attracted towards u n trust me there is 1 person who is meant for u , n u will find her soon but dnt ever think that watever ur x-gf did she was wrong, its just the way she think n she feels for n its nthng wrong, its u who need to be really strong n wise b4 choosin some1 spl in ur life. just be normal, if in case u see her if she talks to u than say hi n move rather spending time with her, go out with frends, speak to ur close frend or write a diary. n enjy life cz life is all abt living, cz if u stp living , time n ppl will move they will nt stp for anyone. so go along with ppl n time. live, laugh, lose thats wat life. u lived with her, u luaghed with her n u lost. Cherish only those b'ful moments which u had spent with her other wise life is pain, so many ppl will giv u so many advise n ans of ur question, bt ultimately its u who gng to be decide how ur life will look like, happy b'ful, romantic, sweet, full of suprise, n a bright future or sad, bad, n no future. choose wat u want n b4 taking any final decision think abt those who loves u nt abt those whom u love, cz the ppl who love u will stay forever, n ever n ever,
happy life
2007-03-03 07:31:07 · answer #5 · answered by Aaeena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it short. "Hey, I'm sorry I have gone about things the wrong way, but, we all make mistakes. I just want to let you know, I care about you. If you ever need a friend, I'm here." Short and sweet. This way she won't think you are back to your old ways.
2007-03-03 07:09:27 · answer #6 · answered by Aloha Soon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi ,
i could feel the pain in u! but my opinion is : just live ur life .... ! if u keep thinking about this ( i know that .. it isnt easy to forget.. but..) u may spoil ur future ! dont disturb her ... be normal! if ur love is true .. i am sure that she will come back to u!
2007-03-03 07:08:29 · answer #7 · answered by kavitha r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you try to move away from her, your mind will be in trouble.
so try to help her with out her knowledge, this makes your mind peace for ever.
2007-03-03 07:26:03 · answer #8 · answered by SRINIVAS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to let her go.......i know its hard...but she's moved on..now you should too.. theres always someone better out there..you just gotta look =]
2007-03-03 07:05:04 · answer #9 · answered by lolomgwtf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just say "f*** her" and move on with your life.
2007-03-03 07:04:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋