i know this girl while working part time before i go into the army
i am now 20 while she is 28
she is working adult..while i still in national service
i am not sure whether i can fall in love with her or not
but she is really cute
but i dont know how to start it
as i never really talk to a girl before
not to say date girls...
can anyone teach me what to do ?
a big age gap ,,,,i dont think i will get my mother's approve
but i dont really know many girls..
this may be my only chance..
2007-03-02 22:59:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow
thanks for so fast and so many ppl reply
but even if i start off with her
i am not sure about the future
as i heard that old wife and young husdband will not prolong is it?
2007-03-02 23:45:23 · update #1
My boy friend and I are 8 years apart..he being younger..We met on the internet and have been together 6 years!! you can so fall in love
2007-03-02 23:13:24 · answer #1 · answered by chelliegirl71 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-05 04:34:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why not, love has no age barrier, and she isn't that much older. I was older than my husband, my sister married a younger man. That isn't the question here really, hopefully you see more in her than cute. Ask her out to lunch or dinner, maybe just coffee for starters, Be yourself and not a jerk, who knows she may be hoping all this time you care about her...you don't know unless you try and once you do it will go well, I am sure.
2007-03-02 23:09:55 · answer #3 · answered by brown eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you get older the age difference will have less and less significance. If you were 8 and she was 16, or if you were 16 and she was 24, then it would be a big deal. But now? Go for it.
2007-03-02 23:04:36 · answer #4 · answered by jimmyjohn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at Anna Nicole Smith - now there's an age gap for you and she said she loved him.
One of the happiest married couples I know is the one where my man is 13 years younger than his wife. They got married when he was 21 and stepfather to her three children. We're celebrating their 25th wedding anniversary in two months time.
There's no telling what the future will hold.
2007-03-03 00:15:11 · answer #5 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the girl. Go into the Army. Grow up and then start looking for a girlfriend.
2007-03-02 23:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, try to stay with this woman if you are in love. If youre not sure, then youre not desperately madly in love with her. Also, you've heard this a million times already I'm sure BUT there are plenty of women out there. So, do what you want.
2007-03-02 23:03:46 · answer #7 · answered by B Rock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go for it, love doesnt really have an age but r u sure that she likes u as well? cos or else u will get ur heart broken and maybe good experience
2007-03-02 23:05:03 · answer #8 · answered by fonzi j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i do not mind this arrangement but
wat i have sensed /guessed it is most likely not to work
but take the initiative and atleast shrug off your shyness starting working relationship with her
if i would have known your location or area of your residence your caaste etc i would have definitely advise particularly according to your enviorment
2007-03-02 23:31:12 · answer #9 · answered by Caring 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did my ex wife is 14 years older than myself, and i still love her to this day even though were not together.
2007-03-02 23:13:54 · answer #10 · answered by terryodell42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋