He was one of my colleagues. I never thought he could have been interested in me as I wasn’t interested in him. Besides, he had a relationship at that time. And I’ve never dated guys who are not free. I realized he wanted us to be more than friends when he approached me with a kiss. I was very surprised, b/c I wasn’t expecting to it. He said that he was sorry and didn’t want to offend me, but he had been in love with me for a year or so, and wanted me to know it. Then I asked him about his gf and he said it was nothing serious between them, he only wanted to help her get over her illness and then break up with her. I told him that we could not be together as long as he is ‘taken’. And I started dating other men. He showed me that this bothered him, even though he didn't mention a word about it. After a while I left my job and ever since we’ve only dated several times and he told me that he broke up of her. But he didn't mention anything about us.
Was this love or just infatuation?
2007-03-02 22:26:52 · 9 answers · asked by AnneMarie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Drop him and move on with your life. This guy is playing with emotions. You deserve someone better.
2007-03-02 22:32:52 · answer #1 · answered by SGElite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wants you to understand the meaning when he told that he had broke up with the previous girl. That means its you two dear....He is in love with you!!!!
Go for it!!!!all the best
2007-03-03 06:35:04 · answer #2 · answered by banju 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was not love or the two of you would be together with no game playing. He just wanted to get in your pants.
2007-03-03 06:31:48 · answer #3 · answered by Captain Shamrock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess yes..because he left his gf..but the fact that he didnt mention anything about you..then..quite confusing..but i guess yes
2007-03-03 06:39:46 · answer #4 · answered by lUnJ@ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is never serious with that other girl... They just...
From his part it was lust. From yours - flattering feeling of being a winner and better than that other girl.
2007-03-03 06:29:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is love ,dear . sound very obvious he broke off with his ex just to be with you. You should seize this opportunities to be with him ,,,note that love is selfish too ..there is nothing to feel guilty about him separate with his ex...he meant to be yours
2007-03-03 06:35:46 · answer #6 · answered by the_road_i_am_on 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a playa but trust ur gut gal
2007-03-03 06:33:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it was infatuation. If it had been love it wouldn't have been so luke warm.
2007-03-03 06:32:51 · answer #8 · answered by vzhnri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, he kissed you. I gues thats a yes!!
2007-03-03 06:30:10 · answer #9 · answered by cute10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋